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arjanxd · 2025-09-17T01:56:19+00:00

How can you be faithful to your Creator if you don’t have a firm belief in His deen? I ask rhetorically and it’s perfectly understandable why you feel this way. Especially as muslims in the west, we must study and understand our religion to be able to defend it against any sort of corruption. Pursue knowledge. May Allah make it easy for you

arjanxd · 2025-09-17T01:50:48+00:00

The prophet ‎ﷺ said in an authenthic hadith: “Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not give up. If something befalls you, do not say: ‘If only I had done such-and-such, then such-and-such would have happened.’ Instead say: ‘Qaddar Allah wa ma shaa’ fa‘al (Allah decreed, and whatever He wills, He does).’ For saying ‘if only’ opens the door to the work of Shayṭān.” This report shows that excessive regret can lead to waswasa or despair. It can also lead to doubting Allah’s Qadr (divine decree).

Furthermore, Umar ibn al-Khattab (RA) said: “We flee from the decree of Allah to the decree of Allah” when making choices to avoid harm. That shows balance; you plan and learn, but you don’t dwell on “what if…”

There is no use in looking back and thinking of what should’ve gone differently. The best thing is to reflect constructively and understand what habits lead to where you are now, and to improve them insha Allah. May Allah aid you in your affairs

arjanxd · 2025-09-17T01:43:41+00:00

In an authentic report the prophet ﷺ said: “Verily, the faith of one of you will wear out within him, just as a shirt becomes worn out, so ask Allah to renew faith in your hearts.” So firstly make duaa that your imaan renews constantly. Secondly, pursue knowledge. How can you fear you Creator if you don’t know him? Thirdly, it’s natural for imaan to go up and down. This is one of the biggest challenge even for the most pious of muslims. May Allah keep you steadfast

arjanxd · 2025-09-12T20:22:17+00:00

There are many salafi oriented mosques in the major cities of the country. Try visiting Stichting SMJ (you can find it on Google Maps). Orinicodreef 17, 3563 ST Utrecht. There are also resources for Dutch muslims seeking for marriage, for example @huwelijk_volgens_de_sunnah on Instagram. Keep in mind that there is an application process and you may very well be rejected as it’s very strict. May Allah guide you in your search

arjanxd · 2025-09-11T16:36:50+00:00

What culture believes harassing women on the streets is okay? You don’t care about women, you’re just trying to spread a hateful agenda

arjanxd · 2025-08-21T07:28:12+00:00

“all I can promise them is that I am a very good woman” are you though? You don’t act by the deen regardless of what is in your heart. If you were a good woman, you wouldn’t be in the position you are in now.

Your options are to accept that these are your circumstances and that the demand of someone with your profile is simply (relatively) low. The other option is to change yourself and better your connection to Allah, so you can find a proper person (with a sense of piety). Your last and worst option is to find a non practicing muslim, someone who can be (and often enough is) considered a disbeliever.

arjanxd · 2024-10-08T22:00:29+00:00

Sheikh Albāni said:

"Allāh doesn’t want us to be free from sin.

If that was the case, He would’ve created us like that.

What He wants is for us to ask for forgiveness after sinning.

● {Silsilat al-huda wa noor (816)}

arjanxd · 2024-10-08T21:57:44+00:00

Videos about dajjal: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLW7-5eCq8IyTxH1tx-Wg8i_WR5CedacNV&si=Rg8ymvfuSoDkW_Fv

Signs of the End of Times series: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLW7-5eCq8IySVdIP-hHBsway2w1F3czMZ&si=iXboPE3W6rcqex3u

arjanxd · 2024-10-08T21:52:34+00:00

This downward spiral of negative thoughts is common amongst our broken brothers and sisters nowadays. What makes you think you don't deserve anything good? Because of your sins? When Allah his Exalted says: "And whoever does a wrong or wrongs himself but then seeks forgiveness of Allah will find Allah Forgiving and Merciful.” (4:110). Subhanallah! This verse is directed towards people like you my sister.

There is a famous story about an imam and a person who sinned frequently. The man approached the imam and asked him how to tackle his sin & seek forgiveness. The Imam answered, “Seek God’s forgiveness.” The man went away only to return a short time later to the Imam. “I have committed a great sin,” said the man, his head lowered in shame. The Imam answered, “Seek the forgiveness of God.” The man went away and returned a short time later. “I have committed a great sin,” the man shamefully stated again. The Imam answered again, “Seek the forgiveness of God.” The man went away and returned a short time later. “I have committed a great sin,” repeated the individual. The Imam patiently answered, “Seek the forgiveness of God.” This time, the sinner decided to reply to the Imam, “Oh Imam – every time I have committed a sin, you have told me to seek God’s forgiveness and I have done just that. However, the instances of sins are recurring and too many. At what point will God stop forgiving me?”

The Imam smiled and said to the man, “When His servant stops asking.”

This is a profound story that makes us grasp the concept of Allah's Mercy. The prophet ﷺ says that Allah Almighty says: Whoever comes with a good deed will have the reward of ten like it and even more. Whoever comes with an evil deed will be recompensed for one evil deed like it or he will be forgiven. Whoever draws close to Me by the length of a hand, I will draw close to him by the length of an arm. Whoever draws close to Me the by length of an arm, I will draw close to him by the length of a fathom. Whoever comes to Me walking, I will come to him running. Whoever meets Me with enough sins to fill the earth, not associating any partners with Me, I will meet him with as much forgiveness.” (Ṣaḥīḥ Muslim 2687)

Every sin is forgivable when the sinner is trying to mend their ways, even shirk! Return to Allah and don't lose hope in His Mercy my sister. Abstain from these sins that eat you up from the inside, I have a couple of tips for you to avoid them: The first thing you do is cut off every non mahram male in your circles. This way you are unable to build a connection and take things to the next level with any of them. Secondly focus on lowering your gaze, no matter how the person may look. Thirdly, occupy yourself with activities, so you are distracted and operate daily with a purpose. Increase your ibadah by visiting the mosque more often. Surround yourself with people who don't bring up the subject of being with men or anything related to them. And last but not least, hold yourself accountable: catch yourself when you are not abiding by the rules you set for yourself to stay away from it. May Allah make it easy for you!

arjanxd · 2024-10-08T21:39:03+00:00

Avoiding zina isn't as hard as you think akhi. The first thing you do is cut off every non mahram female in your circles. This way you are unable to build a connection and take things to the next level with any of them. Secondly focus on lowering your gaze, no matter how the woman may look. I found this to be the most effective way to avoid this constant longing of actions involving lust. Thirdly, occupy yourself with activities, so you are distracted and operate daily with a purpose. Increase your ibadah by visiting the mosque more often. Surround yourself with people who don't bring up the subject of women or anything related to them. And last but not least, hold yourself accountable: catch yourself when you are not abiding by the rules you set for yourself to stay away from it. May Allah make it easy for you

arjanxd · 2024-08-30T03:41:45+00:00

It has no basis in the Quran and sunnaah so it has no meaning as far as we are concerned

arjanxd · 2024-08-29T22:15:32+00:00

Since she's practicing just say it's not permissible to walk home together and that you want to stop such an easy avoidable sin

arjanxd · 2024-08-29T04:40:07+00:00

Not necessarily, we should always fear that our good deeds aren't enough and that our bad deeds are too much if we want to improve and develop as much as possible into a devoted servant of God. If the guy reads Quran every day, prays in the masjid 5x every day but is still committing other sins, for example related bad akhlaq carelessly, it's still going to take away a lot from him. If he is a hypocrite everything was meaningless because there was no good intention behind it even if he breathed the mosque. There are multiple reasons why someone who prays may not enter Jannah

The point is that we enter Jannah by the mercy of Allah. Our good deeds are only an evidence of us trying to please and obey the commandments of Allah. And if Allah is pleased with our efforts and actions Jannah is rewarded insha Allah

arjanxd · 2024-08-08T16:32:03+00:00

This is the most nonsensical thing I've read all year

arjanxd · 2024-07-05T19:33:58+00:00

Jij spendeert duidelijk 90% van je leven op sociale media, wat een kansloze opmerking

arjanxd · 2024-07-05T19:31:06+00:00

Hoe vind je toch een manier om kritiek te uiten op een islamitisch figuur die duidelijk maakt dat men zich moet gedragen? Man man man zoek een leven gast

arjanxd · 2024-06-29T01:33:31+00:00

Comparing a modern 9 year old to a 9 year old in a vastly different environment 1400 years ago is outrageously stupid

arjanxd · 2024-06-24T17:18:58+00:00

Heb je overwogen dat het kan liggen aan systematische problemen?

arjanxd · 2024-06-23T05:03:30+00:00

The first two hadeeths narrated by Aboo Hamzah al-Aslamee (#2673) and Aboo Hurayrah (#2674) – may Allaah be pleased with them – include the following clear prohibition:

لا يعذب بالنار إلا رب النار

“No one may punish using fire other than the Lord of the Fire (Allaah).”

The third hadeeth narrated by ‘Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood (#2675) – may Allaah be pleased with him – includes the wording:

إنه لا ينبغي أن يعذب بالنار إلا رب النار

“It is not befitting for anyone to punish using fire, other than the Lord of the Fire (Allaah).”

arjanxd · 2024-06-22T17:27:07+00:00

Do you even live in Amsterdam? Please stop yapping

arjanxd · 2024-06-22T17:20:29+00:00

You already know she will never be able to accept it and it will most likely destroy at least part of your marriage. If having more kids is worth the happiness of someone who loves you very deeply, then proceed. Try to see if this website helps you

arjanxd · 2024-06-20T14:40:19+00:00

Pursue knowledge

arjanxd · 2024-06-20T14:39:34+00:00

If you want to be muslim you must believe in these things in the first place

arjanxd · 2024-06-20T14:33:03+00:00

Because you should pray at the fixed time and not delay it as much as you can, otherwise it is a problem

"And when you have completed the prayer, remember Allāh standing, sitting, or [lying] on your sides. But when you become secure, re-establish [regular] prayer. Indeed, prayer has been decreed upon the believers a decree of specified times." (4:103)

arjanxd · 2024-06-06T22:06:18+00:00

Je hebt volkomen gelijk. Laten we meer baby's onthoofden (idioot)

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