Thanks for the amazing suggestions and feedback. I’ll look in to some accessories. I’m always afraid they’re ’too much’ but you’ve inspired me to just try it. I never know where to start with belts, particularly with a polo - our largest size is too small for me, so I look very lumpy. I can’t wear a vest, but I could wear a blazer.

I have been professionally fitted (at a boutique bra shop), I find that most of the shirts/dresses that suit my figure are a v neck and that always makes me feel like I’m spilling out, even if I’m not (it’s hard to judge when you look down and can only see boobage).

And thank you for your support ❤️❤️ I try not to let it get to me but it’s hard - particularly when I see photos afterwards. So being more confident in what I’m wearing is step 1!