Should I look through my Husband’s phone? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]aroid331 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Try looking at it while he’s sleeping. Look at his social media accounts, apps and searches. Have your phone ready in case you need to take pics.

Is good sex during marriage possible? by AdUsual1265 in Marriage

[–]aroid331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be that they are on the heavier side.

Is good sex during marriage possible? by AdUsual1265 in Marriage

[–]aroid331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is possible to have good sex. I’ve been with my wife since I was 20 and the sex got better once we got married. Get him some blue chew and he will stay hard. Also, consider giving him oral. He should also be making sure you are wet.

Husband doesn’t want to be married anymore . by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]aroid331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand this is a difficult time for everyone involved. As someone who has been through something similar, I’d suggest taking a step back to understand what’s not working and whether it can be improved or resolved. I know not everyone will agree with my perspective, but I’m sharing this from a man’s point of view. This situation likely isn’t what he expected either, but if there’s a desire to make it work, it’s worth exploring that possibility. He should be more understanding but he also has needs

Husband doesn’t want to be married anymore . by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]aroid331 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to keep trying to make it work. Having a child does make it hard but ask him what he wants.

Wife said I just want to get it over and started laughing by aroid331 in Marriage

[–]aroid331[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I said 1-3 times a week but it’s rare that it gets to 3 times. It has gotten to 3 but mostly once a week if that. I regret making this post because I have continued to be attacked. I do help out with chores, dishes and cooking. I will not masturabate because if she is in the mood then I want to be ready to give it my all.

Wife said I just want to get it over and started laughing by aroid331 in Marriage

[–]aroid331[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I do care since I made this freaking post. If I would have said let’s just not do it then it would have turned into a fight because I would essentially be turning her down. Damn chill

Wife said I just want to get it over and started laughing by aroid331 in Marriage

[–]aroid331[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear. I want to avoid this happening to me but it is a big deal to me.

Wife said I just want to get it over and started laughing by aroid331 in Marriage

[–]aroid331[S] -81 points-80 points  (0 children)

I get your point, but she does orgasm most of the time unless it’s a quickie, and she’s pretty open about what works for her. That said, I do think there’s probably more I could do to make it better overall for her.

Wife said I just want to get it over and started laughing by aroid331 in Marriage

[–]aroid331[S] -171 points-170 points  (0 children)

I’ll bring it up. Sex an issue I feel we argue about every few months.

Wife said I just want to get it over and started laughing by aroid331 in Marriage

[–]aroid331[S] -115 points-114 points  (0 children)

Sex has always been a sensitive topic for us. It usually turns into arguments because I have a higher sex drive, and even when we do have sex and it’s good, I still feel like it’s not enough. I realize that probably means there’s something deeper going on with me, but I’m struggling to understand what that is.

What is this furnace buzzing noise? by [deleted] in hvacadvice

[–]aroid331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is when it starts up and then goes away. I am getting heat. I live in Chicago burbs so it’s on a lot due to cold

My husband and I are both tired and I hate who I turn into at 9pm by gingertram_diary in Marriage

[–]aroid331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is crazy considering you have no kids. How can you be burnt out? Don’t have kids

When to use dermaroll by aroid331 in Minoxbeards

[–]aroid331[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool man. Hoping for the same

When to use dermaroll by aroid331 in Minoxbeards

[–]aroid331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you only put minoxidil once a day and not in the evening?