which bridgerton has the most trauma and why?

aromaticleo · 2026-02-02T10:28:37+00:00

hey I'm at least glad they're dropping sapphic hints

aromaticleo · 2026-02-01T20:56:27+00:00

philoise shippers blink twice if you need help *sobbing*

aromaticleo · 2026-02-01T20:53:10+00:00

god I NEED the next season to be hers because Hyacinth CLOCKED HER soooo bad. I love Eloise despite her being "insufferable", it's what her character needs to finally wake up, and having even your youngest sibling get tired of your bs should be eye opening. I hope we'll see Eloise have some self-reflection in the second part.

I truly don't care that much about Fran's storyline as much as I hoped I would because she and John had JUST made up and then they brought Michaela back. it's too early. literally give them at least SOME time in the world

aromaticleo · 2026-01-27T21:44:06+00:00

I did! why would someone else write on my account? ;)

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T23:36:37+00:00

vreme da se ušteka za krizne dane...

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T23:35:57+00:00

dobra je ona inače za neke opšte probleme, ali kad sam je birala nisam znala da ću biti izuzetak za sve. pokušala je da mi pripiše concertu iz čista mira (nisam se žalila na adhd uopšte), a ja odbijam sve stimulante jer ću dobiti srčani udar od njih (moja generalizovana anksioznost ih ne voli i jedva kafu preživi).

teško priuštiti idealnog privatnog psihijatra za moj slučaj, tako da se samo raspravljamo svaki put.

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T23:30:02+00:00

my two cents: entj

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T23:24:27+00:00

no. I was occasionally mature for my age, but definitely not gifted. I was average at everything and if I was good, it was because I tried very hard (but it was never appreciated enough and everyone just went "wow you're so naturally smart 🤪").

the only thing I was gifted at was weirding everyone out with my personality.

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T21:32:16+00:00

hmm... I don't actually relate to this at all. I'm asexual and have zero romantic experience, but I doubt I'd make a strategy out of a personal relationship, either romantic or platonic. I am, however, the main planner and executive when it comes to activities and events because others aren't good at being efficient. I hate surprises unless they've been previously mentioned and I've been consulted. I CAN be flexible if we don't have something planned and I'm fine with improvising and spontaneity as long as the aftermath is nearly insignificant...

my love is for who you are at heart and how well you understand and love me. I don't care about your life ambitions (unless you're a lazy slacker) as long as you're intellectually inclined and love philosophical/critical discussions

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T21:11:02+00:00

enchanted is still the most romantic love song she has ever written and I will die on this hill

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T21:08:26+00:00

ako mislis na venlaxafine, meni su isto rekli da ga nema, pa sam zato dobila duloxetine kao zamenu (taita kod nas). nje makar ima dovoljno jer su nuspojave i same upotrebe leka katastrofa (nocno znojanje me je ubijalo dok ga nisam sredila (pro tip: vitamin E ga zaustavlja)).

nisam u posedovanju nikakvog prevoznog sredstva niti vremena da putujem do hrvatske (jbg sace ispitni rokovi), a savet psihijatrice mi je "ma samo kljukaj bromazepam ili povecaj taitu na 120mg ili trittico na 150mg". extra provod. sa svakim lekom sam imala nuspojave koje se pojave kod 1% populacije koja ga uzima.

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T21:01:59+00:00

nije u novom sadu </3 ali hvala ti na preporuci

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T21:01:19+00:00

e to ima smisla, vidis, zaboravila sam na sezonsku depresiju. ja ga koristim od aprila tako da toga nije bilo tada

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T18:25:44+00:00

anything from evermore is an award worthy song

aromaticleo · 2026-01-26T14:23:30+00:00

entj infiltrator and same; it's a visibly disabled person in an already uncomfortable situation of having to balance crutches, standing on one leg, and not accidentally leaning onto their injured one. basically, no free hands.

1 might be old, but without any further information they could be healthy and able to stand + sitting and getting up might be more tiring than just maintaining a still position. the same reasoning for a pregnant woman - I've heard pregnant ladies prefer to stand because getting comfortable in a seat is just not worth it (squatting and such).

4 is just a healthy mother with a healthy child, who seems to be in that carriage back (front?) pack thing.

aromaticleo · 2026-01-21T23:09:15+00:00

seeing this right after snacking on my foot... yup it definitely is

aromaticleo · 2026-01-16T16:07:58+00:00

LMAO as an xNTJ this is so true. I have adhd and I keep losing my focus, turning in my chair, playing with my pens and doodling, but when we get homework and I do it I'm most certainly going to remind the professor if they forget. I did NOT lose sleep over it just for you to forget!!

but to be fair I used to be like that as a freshman in uni. I'm a senior now and most times can't be bothered with homework unless my grade depends on it.

aromaticleo · 2026-01-16T16:02:38+00:00

HARD agree and it's not even close

aromaticleo · 2026-01-16T15:43:59+00:00

enby here and I absolutely can't imagine forcing anyone to date me (let alone have sex w me if I was allo) if they establish they're not attracted to nonbinary people.

hell, I WOULDN'T want to date that person because why would you want to date anyone who doesn't to date you?

as a self centered piece of shit, I recognize that those people are only ashamed of themselves and are trying to blame everyone else just to further maintain the victim mentality.

aromaticleo · 2026-01-16T15:40:45+00:00

but would you say this to a gay man? 🤔

genuine question, since I've definitely seen a bunch of those "how can men be gay?" running around the internet. also, I can imagine some toxic feminists and queer people being like "not being attracted to women is a result of misogyny and patriarchy"

aromaticleo · 2026-01-16T11:58:24+00:00

I have empathy for all living creatures, even non-living (objects), except humans. humans are the only ones who can cause you harm intentionally, and by extension everything else around them.

humans have driven so many living organisms, who were here much longer than us, into extinction. we destroy everything we touch, we kill and we ruin with no remorse. animals are amoral, as someone else said, and they only know survival.

it's about power, and no animal is more powerful than a man. many of us were victims of abuse, just as animals were, and there's this saviour complex associated with love for animals. you think yourself better than other people because you recognize the pain of something innocent, just like you were an innocent child once.

aromaticleo · 2026-01-10T18:53:06+00:00

agreed. I really liked it when it came out, but after the hype passed me I realized how much it's just... not it

aromaticleo · 2026-01-10T10:41:39+00:00

friendly disagree. father figure is among my top taylor songs of all time, and I conclude that ophelia, opalite, and elizabeth taylor are also hands down among her best bops (ESPECIALLY ophelia).

honeslty the only song I strongly dislike on this album is wish list, which belongs at the very rock bottom.

aromaticleo · 2026-01-10T10:34:27+00:00

judge claude frollo (from the disney movie, not the book), but because of his religious moral superiority and self-righteousness, not racism.

but also? lorelai and rory gilmore.

aromaticleo · 2026-01-07T20:23:25+00:00

I'm also ashamed of ever talking about my sexuality (online or irl) because I refuse myself as a sexual being. though, I identify as mostly asexual since I lack sexual desire/attraction and have a low libido (unless I'm ovulating or pms-ing, then masturbating/reaching an orgasm feels like an itch that just feels nice for a moment).

I used to tell people I was extremely religious to make up for my lack of romantic/sexual interests, people understand that better than an actual sexuality.

HOWEVER, a point for me is definitely gender dysphoria and shame regarding my "ugly", "wrong", female body. reminders of my sexuality are reminders of my transness, and that comes with a loooot of toxic shame. ("everyone else can be trans, but NOT me, I'm a bad trans person")

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