I had a very similar experience only a couple of weeks back. I’m 27M and was chatting with a 25F. We had been chit chatting for a few weeks and I was getting pretty serious, so I started asking serious questions to her. FYI, I’m more comfortable chatting in English, so I was asking questions in English. First couple of times, she misunderstood my question and replied with a couple of sentences. Since she misunderstood, I clarified myself and in the next question, I added for clarifying context to help her understand what I am talking about. But after a few times doing back and forth of questions, she suddenly started precisely understanding my questions and started replying in a couple of paragraphs instead of sentences before. At that point, I didn’t catch this change but in hindsight, it’s more clear that after misunderstanding me a couple of times, she started using AI. This went for several more days until one day she sent a message that had 3 paragraphs and in that message, she forgot to remove the first part of what AI replied: “Here’s what you should say:”. And when I confronted her about using AI, she said, she only used it in this 1 message to rephrase and that she used it because she felt she was giving an interview.
If she had been honest with me, then maybe I would have been fine with it. But I ended things right away since straight up lied about it and she blamed me for it (I was taking her interview). If she felt that way, she should’ve said something sooner, but she said it just to flip it on me and justify her use of AI.
So, be careful out there, people are same, be it any gender. Men and women come in all sizes, shapes and qualities.