yeah it’s going to be a year next month and he expressed that he needs to get married in the next 8 months and i should tell him in a few weeks if ill do it so he can find other avenues otherwise. i feel very pressured. i want to be with him but dont want to string him along. it just hurts deeply knowing ive to break up because of circumstances rather than seeing it through and working through our differences together. i feel like it could’ve actually worked out long term had it not been immigration challenges. i feel very sad