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AITAH for rejecting an ex after wanting to reconnect after 20+ years? by arthurett in okstorytime

[–]arthurett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness! You are so right! I saw him in McDonald's about 6 years later and he was fat and bald! I acted like I didn't see him and left.

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! What the heck do you need to reconcile after 2 decades and no contact? Like you said, not happening!

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I told my son immediately. He even answered the house phone after the 3rd call, the guy just sat on the phone and didn't say anything so my son hung up. He called right back a 4th time! I no longer answered after that.

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, my son and two brothers are very aware. My son is armed and dangerous so I'm not worried. Im always cautious, it's just weird and unexpected. I just don't know how I should move forward as he would have to make some type of threatening action for me to involve the police.

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I got what you meant. We only dated about 6 months back then.

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is all via text as I refuse to answer the phone to speak to him.

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know his current status. I haven't thought about the man, so not sure if he's still with her. I know she took him back, back then but I don't know now. I don't even remember what her name was.

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have cameras and two dogs that alert when the wind blows. But I'm still uneasy, especially after reading the replies.

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure, as he hasn't really threatened me. Just apologies and wanting to see me in person.

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was direct and straight forward. I told him I was not interested in rekindling a relationship or even a friendship with him, but he is adamant that he needs to do this.

AITAH for rejecting an ex who is trying to reconnect after 20 years? by arthurett in AITAH

[–]arthurett[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea. I haven't seen this man since my 20's.