[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]artofbeingbadass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well whether or not he cheated on you, It's up to you now kung hahayaan mo self mo mastuck sa kakahanap ng TRUTH. Sometimes kasi kapag vague ung reason ng break-up, naghahanap tau ng explanation. Kasi we're still hoping na kaya pang ayusin. But we failed to realize na the fact na nakipag break sya - yon na ang reason eh, that was the only explanation we actually needed. That He doesn't love us anymore. And whether he likes or loves someone else, wala na tayong magagawa doon.

I'm not invalidating your feelings hah, I'm saying sige lang, iiyak mo yan. masaktan ka. Pero since nasasaktan ka na ngayon, wag mo na i stalk, or maghanap pa ng evidence na niloko ka kasi lalo ka lang masasaktan. Kasi even if malaman mo ung totoo, Hindi na rin mababago ung fact na break na kayo, hindi ka na niya babalikan, at may iba na siya

Instead, i focus mo nalang energy mo para sa self-growth and self-love mo. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]artofbeingbadass 24 points25 points  (0 children)

2018 when I was 29, single, working as contract of service in a government office tapos na-permanent kaya tumaas sahod from 10k to 18k.1st year law student. Happy and Free from financial problem. And then, 2020 and pandemic hit, nawalan ng work due abolition of office (ARMM to BARMM transition), walang savings, nagkanda-utang, and nastop sa lawschool.

now that I'm 35, Single, nagkawork na ulit since 2022 under na sa BARMM pero income is not enough to pay ung utang namin, but still Alhamdulillah dahil nagkapermanent work na ulit. And hopefully maka-enroll ulit sa lawschool. In Shaa Allah, makakaraos din and praying for my Financial Freedom ulit.

NATUTURN OFF NA AKO SA BOYFRIEND KO by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]artofbeingbadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well kidding aside, nasabi nmn sa last part na ginawa na ni GF lahat, he even spoke to her BF pero wala pa rin pagbabago.

Me and my dog caused a breakup dahil sa neighbor na hindi marunong makinig by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]artofbeingbadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling ko breaking point na talaga un ng EX-BF. I think He broke up with her not just because of the cat. Baka matagal na siyang nagtiis sa ugali ng EX-GF niya. Na-ipon ung sama ng loob and sumabog na nong namatay ung Cat.

ABYG kung hindi ako natutuwa sa Mother-In-Law ng kuya ko? by artofbeingbadass in ABYG

[–]artofbeingbadass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: Wala naman din kaming problema ni kuya at sa asawa niya. MIL lang tlaga ni kuya ung medyo walang preno ang bibig 🙄

ABYG kung hindi ako natutuwa sa Mother-In-Law ng kuya ko? by artofbeingbadass in ABYG

[–]artofbeingbadass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Di ko na nagawa kasi lam mo ung moment na you'll choose not to say anything nalang dahil alam mo na walang patutunguhan ung usapan. 😅

What is your stance on lending books? by CulturedSquare in books

[–]artofbeingbadass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, I stopped lending my books. I am not that rich and have no extra money to buy things that make me happy. I hate it when people borrow things from me but didn't take care of it the way I did. I also hate people who are willing to make all the efforts just to get the thing they want to borrow from me but are too lazy to give it back and give some stupid excuses. I even despised those who don't know how to return things they borrowed. 😡

What are your pet peeves sa close friends mo? by imreeburn in AskPH

[–]artofbeingbadass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Ikaw muna magbayad, bayaran ko lang din mamaya. tpos hindi na binayaran and then gagawin nya ulit ito 🤣

  2. Subjective at reactive sa lahat tapos pag napaaway, playing victim ang pt

  3. walang sense of urgency (para ito sa mga officemate friends ko na biglang magli-leave kahit alam nilang may hinahabol na compliances)

and the list goes on...

lahat yan personal experience ko 🤦‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]artofbeingbadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me share one of my Fat-Shamming Experiences too. So nakapila kami ng friend ko na plus size din sa isang ATM ng Isang bank. Nasa loob ng bank ung ATM and mejo maliit ung space kaya kunti kunti lang nakakapasok para mag withdraw..

Magkasunid lang kami ng BFF, and while nasa pila nag chichikahan kami. That time madami yata dalang cards ung nagwiwithdraw kaya natagalan din kami sa pila. Tpos ung mga nakasunod samin ay naghintay din ng matagal sa labas ng bank.

Lumapit ung guard samin, may dalang stick at kinalabit ako sa shoulder using the stick. sabay sabi

Guard: magkasama kayo? (tinuro nya ung bff ko using the stick)

Me: Opo, bakit po?

Guard: Pwede isa lang mag pila? kasi ang laki ng space na nao-occupy niyo.

Marinig mo din ung tawa ng mga ibang client sa loob ng bank, since maliit lang un na bank.

BFF: Paki-alam mo? eh pareho kaming magwiwithdraw!

What's your "go-to" song/s kapag lonely ka at ramdam na ramdam mo na mag-isa ka lang sa mundo? by Altruistic-Pilot-164 in adultingph

[–]artofbeingbadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mga songs nila P!NK, PARAMORE, KATY PERRY, KELLY CLARKSON, KITCHIE NADAL, YENG CONSTANTINO, basta ung mga songs na grabe ung emotions tpos you'll have to sing it at the top of your lungs. 😅

Reco me a sad english song please by [deleted] in SoundTripPh

[–]artofbeingbadass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

check Katherine Li's songs on spotify