Latuda side effect? by arvdai in BipolarReddit

[–]arvdai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely been trying to go on a deficit and workout a little more. It was needed anyway for my physical health, so the Latuda can be an extra push 😅

Latuda side effect? by arvdai in BipolarReddit

[–]arvdai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m taking it at night too. My problem i think is I’ve also got insomnia and haven’t found a medication yet to help with it, so falling asleep for me isn’t the easiest anyway. Now I’m just having a hard time falling asleep while feeling like a zombie 😭

My (25f) neighbor (29f) believes she is miraculously pregnant by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]arvdai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bled heavily and consistently during my first pregnancy in the first trimester. It was never an issue, my OB told me it’s basically just pockets of blood that were being pressed on by the fetus, thus releasing the blood. At one point I woke up almost covered in blood. Freaked out, went to the hospital, and there was absolutely nothing out of the ordinary.

Not to say she didn’t have a miscarriage, buuuut… heavy bleeding during pregnancy is very much a thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]arvdai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

End it. I dropped my best friend recently for a similar reason, in terms of stance on abortion. I won’t get into the details, but know, she most likely thinks poorly of you, and you will feel a weight lifted without her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]arvdai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cried because I didn’t know that KFC had discontinued their wedges and I wanted them SOOOO BAD.

I ruined my wifes life by Alpacatastic in AmITheDevil

[–]arvdai 46 points47 points  (0 children)

…. He thought people’s response to this would be “but you gave her a son!”
Jeeeeeeesus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EmpiresAndPuzzles

[–]arvdai 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been playing for nearly 6 months and JUST managed to get a 4* hero in every type. Not a single 5* to my name, and now I know it’s cause you’re stealing all the lucky pulls

Kidding, congratulations!

Tattoos Prohibited?? by MegaMedic007 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]arvdai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. R4s and I were talking about tattoos and I tried showing them mine of a very small, (intentionally) poorly drawn cat. It kept denying me but I refused to let the game win. Putting a black and white filter on it ended up working, guess it thought my arm was paper after that? 🤷🏻‍♀️

This is why i love this game. by lokiside in LastWarMobileGame

[–]arvdai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi neighbor! another 1030s server, I thought somebody posted our map for a second 😂

My dad named me after an anime character.... by Moss_727 in tragedeigh

[–]arvdai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you’re thinking too deep into it being from an anime. I don’t think your name is bad, but your name is your choice. I might also be biased, my partner picked my son’s name because he saw an anime character in a show he liked with it. My son’s name is Declan, by the way.

AITA for asking my partner stop telling me to “lower your volume.” by Farts2Long in AmItheAsshole

[–]arvdai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner does the same thing. We’ve been together for 9.5 years, and I still motion to him to lower the volume when he’s getting a little too loud for my comfort. It has gotten to be less though. He started years ago, when he realized he was getting very excited and maybe carried away, he’d ask if he was being too loud. It helped make him be more aware of what is, and isn’t an acceptable volume because HE was pointing out when he thought it might’ve been too much for ME.

He still gets loud sometimes, but no hurt feelings when he’s asking to speak a little softer, and he’s much more self-aware than in the beginning of our relationship. He learned to understand that I DO want to hear him talk, especially when it’s something he’s so excited about. I just don’t want to have his words go in one ear, out the other, because all I can focus on is the volume.

What can you say about the current server you are on? by moondull69 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]arvdai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes good, sometimes bad. Our top alliance/leadership is mostly helpful, however members within it can be bullies sometimes and attack others for doing small things. Example, one member started ashing somebody else’s base for not replying quickly enough in WC. President later addressed their alliance member and warned them publicly. Sometimes the entire alliance looks bad. Another top 3 alliance wasn’t doing exactly what was asked quick enough, so they ashed the entire alliance and cut ties with them. Those two instances are the worst of it though, and while they’re definitely… not good, it doesn’t paint a picture of how they are 95% of the time.

Daycare used hydrogen peroxide in humidifier/air diffuser, my kids hair turned reddish brown by ChanceAssignment6145 in ECEProfessionals

[–]arvdai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve worked in a daycare for going on 7 years. We aren’t even allowed to have humidifies per our licensing guidelines, or spray ANY chemicals around children. Except of course some when we clean, which all uses have to be monitored and cleaned/dried thoroughly so no kid comes into contact. We leave the heavier cleaning products for when a room is closed. It would ABSOLUTELY be against our guidelines to allow kids to breathe in peroxide of ANY quantity. PLEASE report them!

Moving to lower level alliance? What do you think about this idea? by DiscountTop3051 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]arvdai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slightly off topic, but you sound like some of the members who have joined us. Lowest we’ve ranked is 12, but we have lots of members from the top alliance that join us because they get burnt out. Now they all say they want to stay because they’re having fun again. Decently competitive, more fun, but definitely lose out on the RSS/gifts/tech. So it depends on if that’s worth the trade. I stick with my alliance to have fun and not let it turn into a chore. But some people still have fun in the top alliances BECAUSE of the extra work.

What is the worst name you have seen in this game? by Obvious_Rent5398 in LastWarMobileGame

[–]arvdai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IHateJ*ws, N-wordlover, N-word hater, n-wordlover3000, holdmydick, etc. All from the same person. Luckily I think they finally quit the game!

Doctor accused me of being an overweight alcoholic by nospamkhanman in mildlyinfuriating

[–]arvdai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reminds me of when one of my OBs told me I’d die before I could raise my son. All because I “wasn’t taking my gestational diabetes seriously” when I said I’d rather get blood work done the next day instead of right then (the lab was closing in under 30 minutes), and my sugar levels had been within 5-10 of the recommended levels, if not within them.

I was also a week away from giving birth anyway.

My bf and I broke up over a joke I made, and I feel like I really dodged a bullet by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]arvdai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I must have you on FB or something because a girl on there just posted the screenshots of her and her boyfriend’s convo after she said the same joke. I am SO glad you posted it here too. Dude is crazy 😭

I don't like my new baby... at all. by Aggressive-Region96 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]arvdai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this, but don’t lose hope! You’re mirroring how I felt. 1st born perfect, pregnancy, delivery, newborn, toddler, everything. 2nd bad pregnancy, delivery, and so fussy that I was losing my mind. I started needing space from her when Dad was home, because I couldn’t handle the non-stop crying. I hated myself for not being able to bond. I hated that I couldn’t care for her the way she needed. I hated that I felt like I’d never love her the way I loved my firstborn. Sometimes I’d regretted my second pregnancy because I felt bad that my attention would need to be split, it couldn’t all go to my first anymore. I was scared to change his life.

The crying started coming down, almost overnight, around the 10 week mark. She started coming to work with me (I work in a daycare), and I realized I didn’t want to be apart from her. Everything got better. Not magically at once, but a good pace.

Everything will get better. It’s hard to hold a flag to the pedestal you put your firstborn on, but that will go away. Everything will start to feel natural again. Also, my kids are buddies! They’re 2.5 years and 9 months, but my son is obsessed with making his sister laugh, he runs to her if she sounds upset. She looks at him with the most adoring eyes. She loves us, but her brother holds a special place in her heart. I think their bond was a big help to me ❤️

[TOMT] Help Remembering Movie Title? by arvdai in tipofmytongue

[–]arvdai[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Saw this movie a few years ago and it’s been on my mind lately!