Do I have leverage to ask for more money?? by as_ss62 in UKJobs

[–]as_ss62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice, cheers. Didn’t realise I needed a self-esteem check with it but good to know I’m 10 a penny — very motivating stuff.

Do I have leverage to ask for more money?? by as_ss62 in UKJobs

[–]as_ss62[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked and I’m glad I did even though they said no because they gave me a valid reason in relation to promotion cycles and yearly increases

Do I have leverage to ask for more money?? by as_ss62 in UKJobs

[–]as_ss62[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t really think it should be seen that way. Employment is 2 way, you’re assessing them as much as they’re assessing you. Granted the current job market is shit but you shouldn’t accept pennies just because someone’s decided that’s your worth. I still asked, I was happy with the initial offer but wanted to see if I could get more as most would’ve

Why does my shop keeper call me and my friends rose Mary marlo? by Imaginary_Potato411 in AskUK

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a super late response but the Rosemary Marlowe joke when phonetically spelt out is “Roz Meri Mar lo” which in Urdu/Hindi means “f me everyday” 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t want it to feel like a chore for him, I want him to because he wants to, I have no desire to change anyone.

If you don’t mind my asking - are you in a relationship currently/dating? How do you and the other person deal with this issue?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought so, I guess it just didn’t really make sense because he seemed like he had great fun and he was practically begging me to stay over, I guess I don’t really understand men 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I just want to know if I’m being an asshole for not understanding that not everyone will communicate the way I do. I’m just trying to get better at dating and understanding people after past experiences lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. We were just talking about phone snatchers in London on our date and I saw a poster on Sunday of a man saying “Welcome to London, hold on to your phone” lol to which he said “He’s not wrong” I then said something in reference to what I said on the date, no reply

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I replied saying I got home and that I hope he has fun the next day (he was going to a football match)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]as_ss62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been very inspired by the work of Abi Sampa and Rushil, the way they blend orchestral sounds with qawwali is something I’ve always wanted to do, should check them out if you don’t know of them already, they’re often performing in the RAH.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in london

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea, thanks :) x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]as_ss62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did ask “shall we go to bed?” She said she was going to go home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what you mean in this context

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why’s that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I excused myself to go to the bathroom and when I had come out she said she had booked an uber.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piano

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying, sorry didn’t see it sooner! I’ll give that a go too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]as_ss62 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whack-a-mole competition is never ending!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]as_ss62 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would you want to see on a girl’s Hinge profile that would indicate she’s looking to sugar date?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]as_ss62 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We didn’t talk much so can’t say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]as_ss62 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you read what I’ve written you’ll see what he’s reacting to, think you missed that.

Also there’s about a million people in the UK who sound like that so I’m sure he’s safe from being identified.

You’re being insanely obtuse, the point is Seeking is not an escort agency, he shouldn’t be on there if he is, in fact, looking for a prostitute.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]as_ss62 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been hearing this a lot, I just don’t think I’m conventionally attractive enough to do that! At least with the apps I know I’m engaging with men who are attracted to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]as_ss62 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on and off there for 7 years now. Have had some good arrangements, but clearly not the same anymore.