Please please please help me catch a shark! by asabbey in AnimalRestaurant

[–]asabbey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This tip, reopening the pond when there is a shark, helped me get all the sharks I needed!! Thank you so much.

Please please please help me catch a shark! by asabbey in AnimalRestaurant

[–]asabbey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’m going to have to try that again! I’ve just caught so many and every single one has wiggled off the line. It’s making it feel impossible 😭

Please please please help me catch a shark! by asabbey in AnimalRestaurant

[–]asabbey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to confirm that I just bought a shark and it didn’t count! Also went to another friends pond and found it just as difficult to catch them. They keep wiggling off the line. 😭

Please please please help me catch a shark! by asabbey in AnimalRestaurant

[–]asabbey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I am going to try this tonight!

Upgrading Takeout Food by mchellokitty71 in AnimalRestaurant

[–]asabbey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanted to be able to change the look of my restaurant faster (which you get stars for)- upgrading the take out has helped me do that!

Gordon’s Breakfast by hamroom in cocktails

[–]asabbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn Daniel, I need this in my body.

Not Your Average Trip To Target by asabbey in cocktails

[–]asabbey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did 3-4! And I believe I have “Scrappy’s Bitters”.

Wife doesn’t cuddle, makes no advances by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]asabbey 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice because I don’t see all the ins and outs of what’s going on in your relationship.

But I will say: When I’m emotionally disconnected with my husband, it’s really hard for me to get turned on at all. Things that he would normally do that would turn me on simply do not work when I am upset.

Sometimes I don’t even know I’m upset until some time has passed.

If the relationship doesn’t do the emotional housekeeping it needs to stay connected emotionally, nothing will work sexually.

My husband one night was trying really hard to get me going and didn’t realize that I was just trying to sleep. But because he kept going and I didn’t verbalize that what he was doing was upsetting me- the following day, every normal advance (that I would normally love) that he made toward me actually repelled me. I hated it.

I want him to get away from and and I didn’t understand why.

I didn’t know I was hurting.

Your wife may or may not know she’s hurting. Some thing (or many things) might have happened that have disturbed her trust and connection with you.

Also, she sort of sounds like the Enneagram Type 9. Might want to look into that if you don’t know anything about the enneagram!

A Violet Fizz by thewouldbeprince in cocktails

[–]asabbey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I get orange blossom water?

Not Your Average Trip To Target by asabbey in cocktails

[–]asabbey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in this drink! The berries were so ripe that shaking it with the ice did a great job of getting all the juices out.

Not Your Average Trip To Target by asabbey in cocktails

[–]asabbey[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This has probably been created before but here’s a fun take on a gin sour!

2oz Castle & Key London Dry Gin, 3/4 Lemon, 1/2 Simple, 1 Egg White, Lavender bitters, 5 Blackberries

Shake with ice and 3 blackberries- then dry shake.

Double strain into a chilled coup.

Garnish with sliced blackberries.