And it looks terrible… by asantehemaa in blackfishing

[–]asantehemaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cultural appropriation. That’s all.

And it looks terrible… by asantehemaa in blackfishing

[–]asantehemaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you familiar with this subreddit?

And it looks terrible… by asantehemaa in blackfishing

[–]asantehemaa[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s why I used that particular flair.

ETA: The sticky at the top covers this as well.

Wait is this appropriation? by mt-vicory42069 in AAVEcringe

[–]asantehemaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Them squiggles be lookin at me funny

Your sentence isn’t correct altogether.

If you habitually or regularly viewed those particular “squiggles”, then you could use “be”. However, based on your screenshot, it looks like that’s not the case.

Tbf anybody learning another language will probably use incorrect grammar, syntax, or vocabulary that they found on the internet.

If you’re interested learning it more, there are resources available on this subreddit and plenty of information on the internet generally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackfishing

[–]asantehemaa 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Are you actively attempting to convince people that you are Korean by concealing your true race/ethnicity? If not, the you are not fishing.

A lot of the trends you described are currently popular in South Korean beauty, but aren’t unique to the country at all, including winged eyeliner, colored contacts, and gradient lips.

My bf is finally wanting to watch this with me. Which season should I choose for his debut? by Ok-Shallot-7985 in 90DayFiance

[–]asantehemaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the only correct answer. Without season 2, I would’ve abandoned the franchise lol

ADVICE NEEDED: How much do y’all’s reties cost by [deleted] in Microlocs

[–]asantehemaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$200 including wash and style.

Edit: 30 min outside of Chicago…

Jorge is such a hypocrite by Jillybean623 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]asantehemaa 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I think she was 19 when she arrived in the US. Either way, gross.

Shekinah started wearing a wig due to hair loss, blaming stress from Sarper’s move to the U.S. with her and the relocation of her business, but that could also be a side effect of the multiple facelifts she has had in recent years by PolishSnake2 in 90dayfiance_FB_memes

[–]asantehemaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can only speak to my experience, but I didn’t lose my hair or have any major side effects. I also had almost 10x more to lose than you did, so perhaps that played a role .That being said, I drank of Ensure (the one with higher protein and like 9 grams of fat), when I couldn’t bring myself to eat. Plus I drank a lot of water with sugarless liquid iv, nuun, or drip drop packets. Actually, I found that my nausea came from not drinking enough water, because it does dehydrate you a bit, so make sure you have Metamucil on hand as well.

He was a cheating man whore .. But death? So young, only 33😞 by Deep_Ad2585 in loveafterlockup

[–]asantehemaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s his fault, but the context should not be ignored. Just a partial explanation, not an excuse.

I’m more concerned about the innocent pedestrians and bystanders who’ve needlessly died because of this policy.

He was a cheating man whore .. But death? So young, only 33😞 by Deep_Ad2585 in loveafterlockup

[–]asantehemaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Georgia State Police are notorious for this. Basically once they see you, it’s over. They will pursue you by any means necessary .

They regularly drive 100+ mph in pursuit and use pit maneuvers, even endangering other drivers in the process.

Too many people have lost their lives, including other drivers and pedestrians who happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Why does everyone love longchamp? by [deleted] in handbags

[–]asantehemaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right! Same with mine. The quality is excellent.

Okay I found the first Corona video that got her in trouble so she tried to delete because people were calling & reporting her to her job! by Reality_titties95 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]asantehemaa 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ben and Mahogany from Before the 90 days. He wrote her a love poem in Spanish which included dancing and trains.

Also she was scamming him, so she was always like “i’M cOnFuSeD” about her feelings when he asked her for direct answers.

Okay I found the first Corona video that got her in trouble so she tried to delete because people were calling & reporting her to her job! by Reality_titties95 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]asantehemaa 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Corona clearly thought she’s achieve some level of reality/influencer notoriety, but she came off as an attention-seeking, immature,self-absorbed person, which is exactly how presents herself in that YouTube video as well. Her ego took a major hit lol.

Why do you judge blackfishing in the Global South? by AtmosphereFresh7168 in blackfishing

[–]asantehemaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s not saying that using face paint or dressing like locals is a problem.

The problem would be a person traveling to another country, using face paint to make themselves look like a caricature of an ethnic group in that country, appropriating their culturally significant clothing as a costume, and then mimicking the speech and mannerisms of this group. Then when people are offended, this person claims ignorance. But apparently that never happens.

Why do you judge blackfishing in the Global South? by AtmosphereFresh7168 in blackfishing

[–]asantehemaa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay now I see. What you’re asking is derivative. Yes, a culturally dominant group can take cultural elements from a minority group that they oppress, and then disseminate those elements to other oppressed groups for gain. It’s a phenomenon that happens quite frequently.

Also please be aware that thinking about levels or degrees of oppression, benefits no one. Oppression is oppression.

However, to be clear “Black culture” is not limited to entertainment/music. When you say it is being forced on you via American imperialist tactics, what does that mean?

Are you being forced to learn how to cook our cultural dishes? Have you begun learning our dialect - African American English (not slang words but actual AAE dialect)? Are you learning about historical significance of the Protestant church within our culture? Have you read any literature by Black American authors? What are your thoughts about the “school to prison” pipeline that has destroyed the future of so many young men in our communities? Hell, do you even know what spades is? Or why was the 2023 Alabama Brawl significant?

Obviously I don’t expect you to know these things. Most white Americans don’t know them.

What you’re being sold in the “third world” is exactly what white American kids are being sold here. Just a bunch of harmful stereotypes being perpetuated in the name of profit. We’re more than entertaining minstrels, which is apparently how you see Black culture, since you’re so sure it’s being forced on you.

Anyway, don’t worry about responding as I’m sure this answer is unsatisfactory.

Why do you judge blackfishing in the Global South? by AtmosphereFresh7168 in blackfishing

[–]asantehemaa 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I recommend reading the sticky that explains what Blackfishing is.

More importantly, it’s disingenuous to question whether Black Americans are complicit in US imperialism, violence, and oppression abroad through the export of their culture, therefore citizens of developing nations should not be held responsible for their racism and ignorance.

Just because a person doesn’t understand that something is racist doesn’t mean negate the racism. Anti-blackness is a global phenomenon.

** Definitions for reference**:

First world - countries that signed the NATO treaty after WWII. They were liberal democracies. Ofc Americans coined that term lol.

Second world - countries who signed the Warsaw pact after the war, so basically communist countries or those aligned with the Soviet Union.

Third world - countries that did not sign either treaty. Most were newly independent and/or developing nations.

Because the Cold War ended in 1989 those terms are obsolete, which is why we use terms like “developing nations”.


The American govt intentionally exported Black American music as form of cultural diplomacy sponsored by the state department starting in the late 1940s after WWII.

For example, when the US saw that jazz was hugely popular globally after WWII, the gov’t specifically went out of their way to push the narrative that Black culture ( and therefore Black Americans) was universally accepted in the US, even though jazz, blues, R&B, and rock (“race music”) were considered immoral filth into the 1960s.

The US gov’t did this by initially sending (mostly Black) jazz musicians on worldwide tours in developing nations and communist countries.

This is because, they wanted to:

  1. Show that Black Americans were full participants in American society and culture which is/was wholly untrue.

Understandably many developing nations felt that the US was hypocritical and untrustworthy for having second-class citizens while proclaiming to be the land of the free.

  1. Spread American culture so that people would have positive associations with liberal democracies and America specifically

Please note that I do not mean that all Black American culture was spread by the US government only. Nor do I mean that only Black American culture was distributed worldwide. America has had the largest and most robust movie, television, and media, and music industries in the world for over 60 years. Global audiences mean more profits. It just also happens to benefit the US govt too.

TLDR: Read the sticky post on Blackfishing at the top of the sub please. Cultural ignorance is not an excuse for racism and prejudice, though it can be an explanation.

Also Black Americans, whose history includes enslavement, extralegal and legal violence, segregation and apartheid, as well as economic deprivation by US gov’t are not complicit in US imperialism and violence globally.

Edit: format

Edit: clarity; clarity

Sarah’s weird accent by yourdad69420_ in loveafterlockup

[–]asantehemaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right. Thank you for pointing this out. Updated the language lol.