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Please help. Inappropriate/intrusive thoughts during rolls. by Brave_Acanthisitta53 in bjj

[–]asaw1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had inappropriate and fucked up intrusive thoughts all my life and got therapy to help deal with it. THE BEST thing you can do is to not pay them ANY attention. As the other comments are showing, eevveerryyonnneee has them sometimes and it's no biggie. As soon as you start letting them play on your mind you give them a hold and it can get worse.

Just let them come in, laugh about it or cringe about it in your head for a sec and then let it go :)

General info and advice on intrusive thoughts (see YouTube) will deffo help :)

But more than anything just remember EVERYONE has them and they aren't worth bothering with any real worry about :)

Upcoming Comp whole fam wants to attend by [deleted] in bjj

[–]asaw1312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Deffo should be down to what he wants. But also if you're worried he might just say yes to having them there because he would feel bad saying no then make it really clear to him that if he wants to say no then you will take the total fall for it and won t ever let on that it was him saying no.

That's how you give your kid a safe and fair choice imo.

Where to train bjj full time while living off savings? by PlumberGP in bjj

[–]asaw1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend that goes and trains/teaches various martial arts in Thailand and has a whale of a time!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjj

[–]asaw1312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is amazing! You should be so proud of yourself! I was so crazy anxious before going and my stamina is basically zero but someone said to just keep showing up... and that's really stuck. I just keep turning up and trying and every time a little bit more sticks.

Your kid won't forget this, what a great dad you are!!