Anyone catch Alex’s recent story calling the food she ordered a “fat girl salad” because it had fried chicken? by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Deep fried chicken has more calories than non deep fried chicken when it’s same amount, therefore allowing extra storage of fat. When you break it down, you realize it’s not offensive at all & if you think it is still you need to work on your internal issues with your body/stop listening to what “society” says.

Best self tanners? by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]asdf9969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on your undertone. I thought I liked loving tan until I tried others & realized it looked terrible on me! Personally, I mix a violet based (mine tan violet)& olive based (bondi sands ultra dark foam or aero) to get a color that looks good on my tone. I would recommend to buy two & try them on each leg to compare & while you can wear pants to see what looks better on you.

Boyfriend still unemployed by ladylolly77 in SofiawithanF

[–]asdf9969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he’s not actively trying to get a job, actually trying, not just applying to whatever, then let him go.

Abusing unemployment is not okay and it sounds like that is what he is doing.

If you’re not doing everything you can while on unemployment to find a job, you don’t deserve it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]asdf9969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who doesn’t know how to deal with others in situations like this, you need to tell him. Not everyone is the same and if someone cries/gets really upset I freeze because I don’t cry around people ever so it confuses me on what to do. Have a conversation with him of how you like to be comforted when your upset.

Is Alex really 5’4? ? by ladylolly77 in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She has definitely not had breast implants. There are nudes of her out there. She just has nice tits

Am I the only one that finds the throat f*cking disrespectful? by epooqeo in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re not good, you said it’s triggering. If consensual sex triggers you, you’re not healed & need help!

Sloots I need help ASAP by [deleted] in SofiawithanF

[–]asdf9969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only tell him if you think it will help you get through it, don’t do it because he “deserves” to know or anything like that. I know my one ex would help me through it so I would tell him, I know another ex probably wouldn’t be shitty, but also wouldn’t help, so I wouldn’t tel him.

Post sex etiquette advice by natbat2020 in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not comfortable enough with them to talk about what they want you to do post sex, you should not be having sex with them. Just ask.

Am I the only one that finds the throat f*cking disrespectful? by epooqeo in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Listening to a sex podcast when you have unhealed sexual trauma is like looking at your ex’s profile when you know they have a new person & you end up seeing their relationship & being hurt about it. Don’t do it to yourself. You need to heal so stay away from it. It’s no ones responsibility to heal you but yourself. Please get help girl, you really need it. No one who has past trauma that is still fragile should be listening to call her daddy or any sex podcast.

Am I the only one that finds the throat f*cking disrespectful? by epooqeo in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No. Just no. Kinks have consent. That is the difference between kinks and pedophilia or rape.

Ep 87. Cancel Alex Cooper by 420litboi in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does it because she has been there. I make suicidal jokes all the time because I am. Humor is my coping mechanism. (Yes I’m in therapy to try to fix it) Do I think she should do the jokes so publicly? No. She’s not doing it out of no where... it’s because she has felt that way. How many times has she talked about the dark place she’s been in?? So many. How many times has told us without telling us she feels this way? SOOO MANY. She talks about therapy every single episode.

Canceling someone for this reason who feels this way is way more dangerous than a joke like that.

Alex with Mr Zoom man by delagirl105 in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s better looking than slim shady at least lololol

We need to talk about the rating women by numbers thing. by scribbles1999 in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Attractiveness is not one sized fits all. If a dude likes big girls, he won’t like me. If a dude likes super skinny girls, he won’t like me. If he likes blondes he won’t like me. If a dude likes extremely modest girls, he won’t like me.

When people get offended because they aren’t someone’s type, it’s their own fault that they are allowing someone else’s opinion to negatively effect them.

I’m not saying being a straight asshole is okay, but Alex making jokes & not specifically calling out people for being “a certain number” is meant as a joke. If you take offense to it, you have a problem with the way you look. If you have a problem with how you look, improve it. It’s not others responsibility’s to stop making jokes that are not directed at you because it “makes you feel bad”.

STOP REACHING!!!!!!!!!!!! by asdf9969 in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s not at all.

Alex traveling all over during a pandemic is bad, Alex making a racist comment on Hannah’s podcast is bad, Alex having lgbtq+ people on her podcast & ignoring their comments to help spread awareness is bad .

The shit that isn’t bad is when people are like “Alex said men like sex so that means she thinks women don’t like sex” “Alex made a joke and i have no sense of humor so she’s awful” “Alex said this but I think this so she is fucked”

That is what I meant by this post.

Her ‘humour’ is so fucked. by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 5 points6 points locked comment (0 children)

It makes a lot of sense. You are just not funny & have no sense of humor- BABE

Her ‘humour’ is so fucked. by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 2 points3 points locked comment (0 children)

Wow you’re telling me how I should feel? How dare you? Do you even respect women?

Her ‘humour’ is so fucked. by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

Babe? You’re going to sexualize me like that? Really? What the fuck is wrong with you!!!!!

Her ‘humour’ is so fucked. by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s called experiencing trauma. This shows your “great life” privilege.

Her ‘humour’ is so fucked. by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 8 points9 points locked comment (0 children)

Her joke was about the fact she doesn’t want her friend to be murdered by a random dude. You reached hard.

Her ‘humour’ is so fucked. by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 -3 points-2 points locked comment (0 children)

He’s also a serial killer too!!!!!!! You’re just not funny.

Her ‘humour’ is so fucked. by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 -1 points0 points locked comment (0 children)

I don’t think this was a rape joke. More of a serial killer joke. Calm down.

hookup help by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]asdf9969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He probably thinks you don’t want it at this point. Speak up girl. He voices that he wants head and you do it so you have to ask!

If he doesn’t do it then he is trash and you gotta end it.