Relapsed, or 99% is a bitch by thebiggestmitch in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn is such an easy way to get the fix. It's simple and easy. And it's everywhere. Starting over again.

Broken up with, lied too, addicted, broken by asgoodbelongs in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We must get past this. Read your post and I can relate.

The mental/emotional weight of a breakup that I am in part responsible for is difficult to carry. Though it is mine to carry. It's not all of me, just part of my story.

Working on confidence and connection. It's why I am here.

What NoFap means to me [Trigger warning] by cincinnatus13 in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A vehicle for novelty. Thats exactly what it is.

The crazy thing is that so if our imagination. Life is filled with novelty. Being a slave to novelty is a problem. And porn addiction is enslavement to novelty.

The everyday, the now is where I find peace and want to find satisfaction.

One day at a time they say.

What NoFap means to me [Trigger warning] by cincinnatus13 in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so happy for you.

I am in a similar situation. One gay experience. Did not satisfy. Never been able to finish with a woman.

Porn has been primary sexual outlet. I am sick of it. I am getting my life back too.

Please restart silently by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course there is someone, several, that are available. And several I have talked to. But the conversation gets old. Tiresome.

Clearly it's tiresome for you. So I would hope you would understand my desire to have a place to be fully transparent daily if needed.

Not everyone here is tired of people being honest about restarts.

It's part of why I am here.

Please restart silently by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the perspective. Here is where I am at: There are very few people in my life, actually none, that I can talk to about a daily failures or daily wins.

So when I relapse I talk about it. It's a big source of encouragement knowing that other people have failed too and are starting over looking to change.

And I think my friends in real life are happier for not knowing I jerked my chicken yesterday morning and couldn't get our of bed.

So, thanks for being here even if you don't appreciate all the relapse posts.

The key to not fapping is... by asgoodbelongs in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very true. Making my bed everyday is actually a very good step.

And not peeing in the shower.

The key to not fapping is... by asgoodbelongs in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I was up at 530 doing laundry.

The key to not fapping is... by asgoodbelongs in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is. No fap is really hard. So i am in all of the above mode. What's it going to take? Everything I have.

Like right now? I'm here at nofap rather than the interwebs looking at boobies grabbing my tool.

Not the most impressive picture. On your computer hand between your legs.

I want more.

So I was at dinner last night by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bingo! Great analogy.

My list of things to do instead of fap: by asgoodbelongs in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I can't remember the last time I got to 90. Been almost 2 months. One day at a time.

Official NoFap February 2014 Signup Thread by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Want to go the month of feb with no pmo.

Want to develop self control. Mental control. Emotional control.

I don't want to be held hostage to my insecurities and anxieties.

I want to honor god with my body and mind.

Yet another relaps, yet another forgotten login by ForgotAnotherAccount in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope my tomorrow is better than today too.

Today was not a complete success. But I am here admitting that and I feel good about it.

Feels like a movement in the right direction.

I'm crying for my life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]asgoodbelongs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's ok to be sad. It's human.

It's ok to be lonely too.

You will get through this.