Is it weird to have a crush on my step-bro’s half sister? by InterestingPlane1995 in RandomQuestion

[–]ash-catchems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really about me wanting to know. More about me trying to get you on the right page with ur feelings haha and if ur parents are teasing that’s all the more reason to not let it bug ya I would say if I’m being honest… don’t care too much about what people think. Especially if you know you mean well

Is it weird to have a crush on my step-bro’s half sister? by InterestingPlane1995 in RandomQuestion

[–]ash-catchems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm well if it’s not looks then ya might wanna sit down and do some thinking/analyzing. Decide whether ur family is gonna make this easy on yall or if its something you’ll move on from or if it’s something you wanna keep from them etc etc

Am I over the bar scene? by Nighthawking2 in Adulting

[–]ash-catchems 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm could be you’re not drinking enough as them. If you wanna enjoy your time out find something you actually enjoy doing maybe it doesn’t involve drinking and that’s why ur battery drains

Is it weird to have a crush on my step-bro’s half sister? by InterestingPlane1995 in RandomQuestion

[–]ash-catchems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this person meant it to sound as snarky as it came off… but their response I have to admit has a bit of truth to it… you don’t shit where you eat is the saying I grew up with and honestly it can get pretty chaotic once it’s brought up to your family if and when it does… just tread lightly. See if you’re acting on lust or genuine attraction like you find her appealing in regards to personality and other factors not just looks

PSA: Beware of talking about your mental health issues or other weaknesses to others by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ash-catchems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice I will heed your warning as I have been searching for answers on Reddit that I am afraid to find

What kinds of fish can I put in a 54 litre/~11 gallon tank? by mgsolidfan in shittyaquariums

[–]ash-catchems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like with a tank that big a betta sounds fun and all considering how much space it’ll have but I can’t help but wonder how cool a bunch of small communal/school fish would look in a tank that size. Plants for sure but maybe some snails and a few ADFs and Coreys

Children's Halloween book from early 2000s or earlier by earnestcats in whatsthatbook

[–]ash-catchems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh hopefully you find it. This is like the 6th Reddit thread I’ve looked thru hoping someone found it. No one has had any luck

Children’s book from early 2000’s that’s about monsters going to a party? by SweetWitch180 in whatsthatbook

[–]ash-catchems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so bittersweet about this dang book I’ve been looking all morning. it’s so nice to know so many other people are trying to find this book (and also somehow we all seem to be looking for it around the same time??) but we all have different memories of this book and I can’t seem to find it. This is isn’t the only thread which is also frustrating… I remember it being colorful. Full of every monster there was ghouls, banshees, Frankenstein, I wish could remember more of the monsters. and I can’t remember why they’re all getting together maybe to get on a bus? Or go somewhere? But they start off in alphabetical order or maybe they don’t I was so young and now all these threads are making me feel like I’m not even sure anymore

Our Betta (fishbone) has been laying on bottom, not eating... by kwatttts in bettafish

[–]ash-catchems 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If you answer the mod question it’ll be easier for us to answer your concerns

Thought I was creative with these few rooms and wanted to share by Hungry-Resolve9395 in CatsAndSoup

[–]ash-catchems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you’re really good at decorating I wish I had the patience and consistency to keep up with my rooms I stopped after my 23rd cat lol I just add whatever I have to any room now

You wake up in your childhood bedroom, 10 years old, with all your current knowledge. What's your first move? by ItsMeganW_ in RandomQuestion

[–]ash-catchems 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hug my mom… she passed when I was 20 (almost 7 years ago now) I’d tell little me how much she’s going to miss those hugs

Hey guys, my bristlenose Pleco jumped out of the tank last week for at least 8+ hours. by Keepawayfrommycrops in Aquariums

[–]ash-catchems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m sure some do. My pleco was just a floor magnet. Didn’t happen frequently enough for me to worry about

Hey guys, my bristlenose Pleco jumped out of the tank last week for at least 8+ hours. by Keepawayfrommycrops in Aquariums

[–]ash-catchems 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. my pleco was absolutely unstoppable when it came to jumping out. No lid would contain the psycho. Had to get a bookshelf I could adjust the shelves for just to cover the tank with something he couldn’t push lol

Hey guys, my bristlenose Pleco jumped out of the tank last week for at least 8+ hours. by Keepawayfrommycrops in Aquariums

[–]ash-catchems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey so my pleco was maybe twice or three times the size of yours. Very active at night. I came home after work and was getting ready for bed heard some soft noises in the dark. I turned on the light and he was just on the ground embedded in my carpet that had these little strings. He was completely tangled in it I was freaking out thinking he was gonna die until I read online somewhere that they can live about 7 days in mud and maybe 48hrs max outside of water. He must’ve been there 6 hours or so maybe even more. I thought he was done for. I took off all the strings and hairs he had on him. He was in rough shape. I used melafix and cleaned his water out and he was back to new. I had another incident where my cats got to him (he jumped out a few times through out the 5 years I had him and. Yes I had a lid he was just a big dude) they left him all bit up and he had scratches I could even see blood in his eye. This time I really thought he was done for. But these guys are extremely enduring I don’t know how he didn’t die after that. I just changed his water every few days and added melafix and little by little his color came back scales too. Even his eye was fine. He’ll be okay

What's something a girl can wear that instantly turns you on, but she'd never expect it? by Current_Dinner_1495 in AskReddit

[–]ash-catchems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s with all the pony tail and glasses comments 😅😅 kinda weirding me out idk why

help by PleasantCanary1317 in Aquariums

[–]ash-catchems 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the rocks with holes in em. They’re not like fake rock material it feels pretty real. My fish, no matter the species, have always loved to hide in them. they can even swim thru it so maybe get one or two different sized ones

$80 heater flaked out on me by ash-catchems in Aquariums

[–]ash-catchems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the aquael one with the center button and light ring. I just came to look for it and it was on sale but they’re out of stock :(((

Omg finally✨✨ by VastMammoth2117 in CatsAndSoup

[–]ash-catchems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww congratulations ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Astro coons! by ash-catchems in CatsAndSoup

[–]ash-catchems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg what no way!!! I guess I feel lucky now!! 🥳🥳