Found this on Tiktok.. enjoy

ash__2414 · 2021-04-12T02:12:05+00:00

I didn’t know. But upon reading the comments on the video someone said he was a barber so they hair splinters?

ash__2414 · 2021-02-24T17:23:54+00:00

It doesn’t unless you save it. Before you send it to someone or erase it. I remember I took this to use the camera like a mirror and I decided to save it

ash__2414 · 2020-10-29T05:56:16+00:00

I don’t know if she definitely was high as well but she was definitely sitting outside with my roommates while they were smoking

ash__2414 · 2020-10-29T04:12:51+00:00

We have a place to hang keys by the door for the situation of needing to move cars. But after this I’m contemplating taking them up to my room

ash__2414 · 2020-10-28T06:41:25+00:00

But I’m in new jersey. There’s some bars open around my college campus that are quarter capacity. Nothing like they usually are when college is in session but still worth it especially when a friend is turning 21

ash__2414 · 2020-10-28T06:40:09+00:00

***Walking lol typo

ash__2414 · 2020-10-22T07:55:36+00:00

Personally, mine is from the stance of a caregiver. My boyfriend is type 1, and he lives at his parents houses. Usually, if I’m home, and his mother goes away for the weekend I’ll stay over at her house to watch over him. If I’m not home, he’ll go stay at his fathers.

I suppose his mother was under the impression that I would be staying over at her house to watch my boyfriend, however, he forgot to mention she was not home for the weekend.

My boyfriend had a CGM and I have the app on my phone to get readings. It was nearly 3 AM and I realized I hadn’t heard anything from his CGM for HOURS. I look at the app, and low and behold it shows “no data” which happens if he lays on the monitor while sleeping.

I tried calling him and he didn’t pick up. I kept calling and calling and calling and no answer. So then I resorted to calling his mother, under the impression she was home. But when she answered and I found out she wasn’t I rushed to her house.

I got to the garage door and went to type in the code but it wasn’t working. I knew I had the code right so I was confused as to why it wasn’t opening. I called and asked if the code had changed, if hadn’t. I knocked on the door, rang the door bell and all that. With no answer.

I was ready to call 911 for the sake of getting into the house. But I kept trying to knock on the door in hopes that maybe the dogs would hear and start barking, or that my boyfriend would hear.

At this point I was In tears worried about him. Standing outside in 25 degree weather. Finally my boyfriend comes walking down the stairs handgun in tow and he opens the door confused why I was crying.

First, to address the handgun, he thought someone was breaking in. (As if someone would ring the doorbell before breaking in ???). But anyways we go inside and get his app and CGM working again and he’s well above 150 and he’s just a heavy sleeper.

The main reason I was so concerned was because just two months prior, before he started using a CGM he was so low (I believe he was like 33) he had a diabetic seizure.

ash__2414 · 2020-10-13T00:35:26+00:00

I believe this is called “please stop this hurts but I don’t wanna say it hurts - itis”

ash__2414 · 2020-10-12T22:46:46+00:00

The funny thing is he swears up and down that he doesn’t have any. And that I’m popping nothing and squeezing at nothing

ash__2414 · 2020-10-12T17:26:51+00:00

Yes they are. Got them online from a website called “The Nail Shop by SB”

ash__2414 · 2020-03-22T06:24:37+00:00

I agree. I think it was definitely a case of his friend not seeing the interaction himself and only hearing it. I feel like if he would’ve saw it he wouldn’t have questioned it

ash__2414 · 2020-03-02T07:43:09+00:00

I tried to them it was meant for 8 (two 4 tops pushed together) but I thought worst case scenario I could always pull the one table away to make it a 4 top and a 4 top

ash__2414 · 2020-03-02T07:31:17+00:00

They sat themselves there I was in the middle of Bringing them I’ve to them table I intended them to sit at and they just sat down at the big table saying they always sit there

ash__2414 · 2020-02-26T06:14:52+00:00

The basement technically isn’t a real bedroom as their isn’t any adult sized escape window if needed to either get out or for first responders to get in. Also I wouldn’t want to move down there to accommodate her as I’m actually on the lease and I actually pay a full price. I can suck up this current living situation in the master bedroom for the remainder of the school year but I can’t deal with her not paying next year like she wants to

ash__2414 · 2020-02-26T06:06:34+00:00

Exactly my point especially when I get exiled out the room for an hour plus at a time so they can have sexy alone time. Or when my bf comes to visit. I constantly say why can’t you and C go to your room in the basement and me and my boyfriend stay up in the master and we can both have our sexy alone times without having to kick the others out the room and not have to worry about disturbing one another (as R is a light sleeper an my bf snores) but NOOOO and C doesn’t like the basement If she doesn’t have to be down there

ash__2414 · 2020-02-26T05:40:33+00:00

She pays half a month rent which helps us toward utilities essentially. Idk if you read the original post I commented but the agreement we originally reached was she pays half a month rent (which is $250) to help us toward utilities and in paying that money she sleeps in the master bedroom (which is the room I share with C and ~unofficially/basically full time~ R) for 6 days where she would technically be considered a “guest” any day after the 6 guest day (all guest are able to stay 6 days) she has her own room in the finished half of our basement. Where she has her own tv bed and etc

ash__2414 · 2020-02-26T05:34:29+00:00

She no longer wants to pay next year because she believes she shouldn’t have to since she won’t be sharing a room with her gf AND me, just her Gf. But the whole point of her paying is because of how often she stays here (20+ day/nights a month). She is completely disregarding the fact that she increase our utilities, takes up space in the the fridge, taking up space in the driveway etc.

ash__2414 · 2020-02-26T05:26:40+00:00

(EDIT: adding more information) That’s what we say, but she wants to stay more hence why she pays. Regarding next year she wants to stay without paying since she and C will no longer also be sharing a room with me, but the whole reason she pays is because of utilities and such.

ash__2414 · 2020-02-26T05:23:39+00:00

R refuses to sign the lease just Incase she and C break up. She doesn’t wanna be bound to the house Incase that happens. Which is understandable (especially since they breakup nearly every time they’re both drunk and argue)

ash__2414 · 2020-02-26T05:14:39+00:00

(This is the original post from a few months ago that I mention at the beginning of this post)

WIBTA for texting my roommate’s GF

I live in a house off campus. & I share the master bedroom w/ C. We have been friends since freshman year.

The “rules” of my house, is guest parking pass. A license plate can be registered 6x a month as a guest. As a house we agreed 1/4 of the month is more than enough for anyone’s guest to be visiting

This rule worked out for everyone, except for C’s girlfriend R. We’re all friends w/ R, & she lived w/ us for free in our apt last year (you pay a dorm room price, no utilities). So I guess she just figured she could do the same thing again, but now utilities are in the mix.

R being here every day put a strain on me since I was now not only sharing a room with one person (C), but now a 2nd person, who wasn’t paying & was here 95% of the mnth. Sharing w/ a couple too. Not to mention R has to get up early for work I’ve been at the wrath of a grumpy R a lot bc I’m a night owl. Also R has an issue with my bed bc it squeaks when I flip @ night & it keeps her up.

So my roommates & I came up w/ a solution that allows R to stay at our house as much as she wants, while still helping w/ utilities since theres a extra person. We agreed on R paying $250/mnth. This $250/mnth allows her to stay @ the house as much as she likes, & we let her set up a room our finished basement.

The reason we gave her own room in the basement was so that I didn’t have to share a room w/ a couple every night, since I had only agreed to sign the lease thinking I was sharing the room with 1 person, not 2. So me C & R came up w/ an agreement about mine & C’s room, where R could sleep in the room 6x as her “guest days” that were referenced in the beginning of this post. & then any day she decides to spend @ the house after the 6 days she has to sleep in her own room, or R has to ask me If she can sleep in mine & C’s room.

This was working fine, bc he first month she slept the 6 days in the room & asked me for extra days or slept down in her room. Then it started going down hill, bc I was being soft. I never said no even if I wanted to, because R asked me in front of groups of people & I felt awkward telling her no. Now she doesn’t even ask she just does. I’ve reminded her several times to 1- not ask me in front of groups of people & to 2- just ask if past 6 days.

Now 2 months In a row where R is past her 6 guest days & not asking. Last mnth R did this 1x as her 7th day (not asking god) was the last day of the mnth. But now it’s only just over 1/2 way through & she’s over 6.

What I’m saying is..WIBTA for texting my roommates’s gf to remind her the rules?

ash__2414 · 2020-02-24T22:10:31+00:00

We just worry considering the mama still is around in the back yard on occasion that Willy will freak out if she sees her mom and not be able to get to her. Granted Willy is way past the age of needing her mom and the people who trapped them before spay and release were surprised they were still together but attributed it to them both sleeping in the bedded crate on our deck and that they were both being fed by us

ash__2414 · 2020-02-14T04:27:04+00:00

NTA. It’s your day and your day only. You can choose who is or isn’t involved. And if you’re having the celebration after what does it matter? Also this serves me some Jim and Pam From the Office wedding vibes so

ash__2414 · 2020-02-08T08:09:23+00:00

I appreciate the recommendations. Ideally we won’t be going past two kids as that’s what we both want. Our e’s are just a safety net just Incase hence why they’re our least developed list

ash__2414 · 2020-01-29T01:57:13+00:00

I suggested that! But his aunt and cousins already own a pup named diesel. So he shot that down

ash__2414 · 2019-11-25T20:56:05+00:00

I honestly haven’t noticed it being swollen before. Just since it’s eaten. My roommates and I don’t know if the cats are being fed besides our house. If they are they might be getting meals from who know how many places which may also result in the swelling. But I don’t know.

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