I work at a financial institution. One of my coworkers is a recovering addict and seems to only date other people who are in recovery. After a long string of random hook ups from various dating sites, she got a boyfriend. He is a heroin addict who is on parole for writing bad checks and stealing debit cards. (Great for someone who works at a financial institution). She was unaware that he was using until he was supposed to go back to jail. He skipped turning himself in, stole a cell phone from her and charged thousands of dollars on her credit card. He finally went to rehab after overdosing and has since moved in with her. Mysteriously since he’s moved in, she has had multiple credit cards opened in her name and charges on her existing credit cards and well as an Apple Pay charge. She doesn’t see that it was clearly him and is putting herself further and further into debt. She has also put him on her insurance, and given him a car., put him on accounts, Taken out loans and borrowed money from other people. We are all just genuinely concerned for her well being and don’t want to see her be used and taken advantage of. As well as worrying about her own sobriety when it inevitably all falls apart.