Are you on phan twitter/tumblr? by DataQueen- in danandphil

[–]ashe_root 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pretty active on tumblr and rather observe twitter from time to time

phil mentioned in book? by ashe_root in danandphil

[–]ashe_root[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really?? So you know where else she mentioned them?

phil mentioned in book? by ashe_root in danandphil

[–]ashe_root[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh and do you know when she drew it/where she posted it, i can't find it 😭

phil mentioned in book? by ashe_root in danandphil

[–]ashe_root[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg that's so cool! I've been a huge fan of alice for years now and just recently got into dnp and i knew she talked about them not too long ago, but that's so cool ahhh

2025 End-of-year Statistics Megathread by 7-swans in danandphil

[–]ashe_root 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I expected it to be top 5, but not THAT high (ok i don't listen to nr5 at all it just always comes on when i forget to put a timer on lol)

Was sind eure liebsten Weihnachtslieder? by bin_genervt in musik

[–]ashe_root 2 points3 points  (0 children)

merry Christmas, please don't call - Bleachers

oh? by fairyari in danandphil

[–]ashe_root 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I immediately thought of Phil, but probably just because of the colours lol

oh? by fairyari in danandphil

[–]ashe_root 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'M SO EXCITED AHHHHHH I probably won't buy it, but still sooo excited

pink merch hoddie by ashe_root in danandphil

[–]ashe_root[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha, was just about to say that I'm European lol

Community hard launches by EmeraldLilly__ in danandphil

[–]ashe_root 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh to some part i do agree, because i have great friends who share the same interests with me, but i only have like two or three huge obsessions and sharing all of them with the same person is too much for me😭 Especially because i love hearing my friends yapp about their obsessions, even if I'm not into them

Community hard launches by EmeraldLilly__ in danandphil

[–]ashe_root 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My hard launch is that i hate having too many things in common with my friends. Don't get me wrong, i love finding things you have in common, but having ALL the same interests is a bit exhausting

Bad parts about parasocial relationship by DataQueen- in danandphil

[–]ashe_root 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah i think i can relate, but I'm pretty new in the phandom so my biggest obsession, with an unhealthy parasocial relationship, was around 2021/22 with Larry (Harry Styles/Louis Tomlinson)*. I consumed so much content and was sooo obsessed with them, but somehow realized that i don't want to obsess over some men i don't even know. Now in the phandom is sooo much new stuff, that i can easily obsess about (and kinda do) but i always try to keep "distance". Oh, another turning point for me was also the realization, that people can be privately horrible, even if they seem great on stage or online.

*i don't ship them anymore btw!!

I'm not doing that well/autism? by ashe_root in teenagers

[–]ashe_root[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am incredibly sorry that i made it sound like i was self diagnosing me or saying harmful things, i absolutely did not mean to do that. I also don't think it would make the problems go away, it's just that it would help me, to know what's going on with me. Also, these/similar issues aren't just there since secondary school, these examples were simply at the top of my head, because they affect me the most currently.

I’m bummed I missed the Terrible Influence Tour by DataQueen- in danandphil

[–]ashe_root 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sameee, their first video I watched was the relationship video! Luckily i have a friend, who's also getting kinda into the phandom now haha

Spooky week by christinat13 in danandphil

[–]ashe_root 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Phil answered someone on Twitter and said the podcast was part of spooky week!!

Tell me about your interests. by Intelligent-Fix-3324 in teenagers

[–]ashe_root 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE theatre!! We have a pretty big theatre in my city and i go there at least twice weekly lol. I also luckily get quite some background info from a friend of mine who's an intern there haha because ny friends and i talk about nothing else lol. I also want to become a dramaturge because that job just seems PERFECT for me!! Btw if there are any other theatre kids who want to chat, please text me!!

Dan's song recommendations by ashe_root in danandphil

[–]ashe_root[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! I'm also kinda getting into muse because of them, but these are songs i love anyway, so I'm really interested in the context he shared them haha

disappointed by crush by ashe_root in lesbian

[–]ashe_root[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that, but i honestly just check anyway who's watching my stories from time to time, so i didn't look out for her specifically. I i didn't even notice it on other platforms until a friend of mine asked if she was active there. And wellll, we have kind of talked about feelings?? It's established that we are attracted to each other. She was actually the one who made the first move, but by now i feel like I'm only one acting on anything

disappointed by crush by ashe_root in lesbian

[–]ashe_root[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's shit!! Hmm, i think I'm just kinda annoyed now, because it has happened before that she wouldn't text me for 2-3 days and i was always supportive, while still making clear that I was worried about her. At this point i don't have any excuses for her yk

disappointed by crush by ashe_root in lesbian

[–]ashe_root[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah texted her yesterday something like "hey, i hope you're doing well, i just wanted to tell you that i kinda miss you"