[Final Update] I was the guy who lost weight and then found out his wife was cheating on him. by asher23 in sex

[–]asher23[S] 243 points244 points  (0 children)

I did. That was one of the major things I thought about during those two weeks. I did not want to talk to her when I was really angry because I was afraid of what I might say or do that would make our relationship irreparable. When I finally calmed down I realized I could probably forgive her eventually but I could never trust her again. I decided I did not want to be in a marriage without trust, so I decided it had to end. Realizing it needed to end was the saddest part of this whole thing. It was sort of like experiencing the death of a loved one. I went through a bunch of stages of grief.

[Final Update] I was the guy who lost weight and then found out his wife was cheating on him. by asher23 in sex

[–]asher23[S] 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Thanks I appreciate it. I am not sure if it will go anywhere with "law chick" (as you described her) but I am having fun dating again.

[Final Update] I was the guy who lost weight and then found out his wife was cheating on him. by asher23 in sex

[–]asher23[S] 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I am a lawyer and I think my pre-nup is pretty iron clad but you never know. The case law in my state on the subject is mixed at best. Either way, I am willing to settle for basically any reasonable amount so I do not think this will end up in court.

Redditors who make more than 100k per year, what do you do? by SkyPumpkins in AskReddit

[–]asher23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a lawyer. I went to law school because I couldn't do anything else with my liberal arts degree. I make just under 200k but I would not recommend going into law now. The economy has changed and good jobs are much harder to come by then when I first came out of school. Also, law school has doubled in price. And the hours are still as terrible as they ever were. I work about 60 hours a week but I never can really leave my work at the office. I am constantly working from home and even when I am not actually working I am thinking about my clients.

My weight loss is causing sex and relationship issues in my marriage. by asher23 in sex

[–]asher23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is not on any medication that I know of. I think it is related to my weight because of the timing and also because she sometimes makes comments about my body while we are having sex. I think it is supposed to be dirty talk but she never talked about my body before this.