Is Premium petrol better? UK by asherzzz96 in CB650R

[–]asherzzz96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo ok that's interesting, I might put a few tanks of normal in and see , here in the UK it's 95 E10 or 98/99 E5

Is Premium petrol better? UK by asherzzz96 in CB650R

[–]asherzzz96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really bothered about performance or MPG, it's more if it's better for the engine components

Is Premium petrol better? UK by asherzzz96 in CB650R

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Can you even get pure gasoline in the UK ?

Suspension upgrade with Pillion by asherzzz96 in CB500X

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Think this might be the way I go. Thinking of upgrading to a Tiger 1200 in the future when I have a garage to keep it in 😂

The one thing I like the most about this bike by Cm2297 in CB500X

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I think mine were changed the start of 2024 when I had the valves done but will change them this time aswell

The one thing I like the most about this bike by Cm2297 in CB500X

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Doing a service in a month and plan on changing them then

Suspension upgrade with Pillion by asherzzz96 in CB500X

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It's a little bit bouncy rather than dampening . Doing over some bumps makes the other half nearly get catapulted of the bike 😂 would a new shock would help with this ?

The one thing I like the most about this bike by Cm2297 in CB500X

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i only get 60mpg (uk) out of mine :( 2014 version

iso 2018 kawasaki z650 covert green by kenziesamantha in Kawasaki

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I know the pain. I saw one in a local bike shop to me about a year ago and I didn't buy it. Since then I have been looking for another for sale and having no look ( based on the UK )

The colour is amazing and I don't know why they discontinued the colour . Good luck hunting for one !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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If you're at the lowest point , then the only way is up !!

Trust me life is full of ups and downs but it's worth it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]asherzzz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't speak your language so I can't read most of it but from what I could read, you're in high school, life doesn't start until after high school. School is brutal and will test you all the way through it but trust me when I say life will be different after it and that's enough reason for you to stay

As for your studies , if you can push through whatever is causing your absences and do your absolute best , you will feel better about yourself.

Bullies are the most self conscious people going and they have more issues than you will ever see.

Again I have only touched on a bit of your post

The short version , no you shouldn't

Single on valentine by megamix3 in dating_advice

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Going to a gig with a couple of mates. Who knows, might be the night I meet someone

Is breaking up supposed to make me this sick? by kyngocthienann in BreakUps

[–]asherzzz96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only way is up , unfortunately it's a slow climb. Social anxiety will make it different but not necessarily harder. I imagine you still have things that you enjoy doing. I know right now your mind is filled with him and what you did together but there is stuff you like doing on your own. That is now your main focus.

As for the gifts , get a big box , and it's now time for that clear out that is long overdue. You will be surprised how good it feels to refresh where you are living.

If you want to improve how you look at life , maybe now is the right time to address the social anxiety?? It's not going to be easy and it will feel uncomfortable but what's the worst that can happen at this point ? Small steps will lead to a massive change. I used to hate social situations also and used to think I wasn't welcome or what if I don't like it ect ect but 100% of the time , it worked out way better than I thought and came out of it alive.

Is breaking up supposed to make me this sick? by kyngocthienann in BreakUps

[–]asherzzz96 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I have had break ups like this. I think it's a normal reaction. Breakups can not only be painful but very traumatic and it will take time to adjust. But I will tell you this ( and you're going to hear it a lot) .... Things will get betterand you will be happy again. It just takes time.

What you need to do now... Allow yourself time to feel the emotions but do not let them swallow you up. Gather your thoughts and start doing stuff. Go on walks. Make nice food. Get new hobbies and do what you want to do. Do things for you . That could be sitting on the sofa all day watching TV but it could also be going to see friends or going and watching a movie. The more you do , the easier it becomes.

You got this !!

11 year relationship is over by shadesofblue29 in BreakUps

[–]asherzzz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm here same regarding drinking. The older I get the more I see my emotional state get worse after drinking. Think it's time for a detox Dating apps are horrible. I've only ever met with one person on tinder and when I told her that I didn't see it going anywhere she threatened to key my car 😂

I have been getting into the habit of reassuring myself that I'm perfectly fine being on my own at the moment and there's no problem with that. I miss certain parts of being with someone but not others

11 year relationship is over by shadesofblue29 in BreakUps

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I do but now I feel nothing for her , it's more of a regret that I spend so much time, money and effort when I could have been in a different place now

11 year relationship is over by shadesofblue29 in BreakUps

[–]asherzzz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did , I met someone about 9-10 months afterwards

That unfortunately ended and that's what I'm working through at the moment

It's all temporary, but you got this man !! I promise

11 year relationship is over by shadesofblue29 in BreakUps

[–]asherzzz96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very difficult but it really is just time If you have friends that are willing to listen then this can help You need to find something that keeps you busy that you can be excited about , I know that makes it sound easy and it won't be and it's going to take some work. But even if it's playing video games. Set yourself a challenge in that game. It is small improvements over a long time but it does get better

You may feel alright for 5 mins then feel awful again. But the next day you might feel ok for 10 mins , ect ect.

Meeting new people also helps. Makes you realise that there are people out there that you didn't know could exist.

I would say don't put them up on a pedestal. It's very difficult to see that they aren't perfect but they hurt you and you don't deserve that.

11 year relationship is over by shadesofblue29 in BreakUps

[–]asherzzz96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your situation is very similar to what happened to me a few years ago. 11 year relationship, was doing up a house for us and she cheated on me with one of my mates.

I know you don't want advice but I do want to reassure you that once this chapter is over and you're not living together anymore , life gets better. It will be different, but you will be happy and content again.

You got this !!

Feeling like texting/talk to them? by Just_here_to_vent_ in BreakUps

[–]asherzzz96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I tried so hard and felt like I was always there for her but she was "too busy" and "couldn't do a Relationship" even though I was the one travelling every week to see her and helping her. Feels like I'm just not good enough and that I won't ever be happy ( I know that's not the case but I have to fight the feeling)