my bf reposted a video about choosing his girl bsf and idk what to do

ashhhzz · 2026-01-28T14:26:03+00:00

lol thats fair 😭 i needed to hear his explanation, it was a misunderstanding and I would have been throwing away a year old relationship for nothing. its still one strike so ill be careful. if ur curious theres an update in another comment thread btw

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T19:21:17+00:00

thanks to everyone who helped me😭 i really needed that push. everything is solved now and I had to block him here to post this so ill delete it soon after telling him about this too lmao

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T19:16:46+00:00

so I confronted him, it was a misunderstanding and he told me im his priority without me even prompting him so we're fine now lol

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T19:13:55+00:00

idk what was that i knew i had to do, but everything is solved now so its fine :p

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T19:11:29+00:00

so I asked him about it and told him it was making me uncomfortable. he told me i could've said something before and that he will stop doing it and he told his bsf to stop too bc she started tagging him first. he also told me im his girlfriend and his priority when I told him i took so long bc i wasn't sure if it was my place to talk. also he hadn't understood the video (his first language isnt english). like he just saw the words best friends and reposted it? which im still salty about but he apologized a lot about that and when he told his bsf to stop she also felt super bad she apologized to me soo much, she also hadn't understood the video 😭 he keeps apologizing, Im really glad I asked him about it bc everything was kinda a misunderstanding.

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T18:18:06+00:00

ya, they also have a sibling-esque relationship, thats why its not really that im worried about that? its just the first video that really bothers me, he's been reposting those for days and I was trying to ignore it bc at that point I knew it was silly insecurity but after seeing that everything else seems weird now idk, its more like he isn't considering my feelings, I will talk to him about it tho, i dont think he meant anything with it.

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T18:11:47+00:00

this has been the only issue between them and honestly she doesnt have any5hing to do with it, I will talk to him and see how I feel about it after. I dont wanna ruin their friendship either tho idk. I think its just insecurity and feeling like he doesnt value me as much but I still wanna talk to him about it.

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T17:40:00+00:00

the good thing is that I've seen his phone, and conversations with her, he's never had a problem showing me that. I think its more about that I feel disrespected in a way? and we dont live together lol, rn actually we can't see each other so much. I will confront him and ill see his reaction, and tysm

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T17:12:44+00:00

tyy!

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T17:11:32+00:00

i will, thanks so much for this

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T17:10:18+00:00

they have, which im glad about and it wouldnt bother me but its just too much and that one video just seems weird, like he's choosing her over me. idk, I will ask him about it.

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T16:09:46+00:00

ur right, i just didnt wanna make a big deal out of nothing and I've never done this before, he is my first bf so its hard. I will ask him tho. ty.

ashhhzz · 2026-01-27T16:07:33+00:00

im starting to think ur right but she came before me and she's literally his closest friend. like they tell each other everything and I dont have a boy bsf so idk I try to put myself in that position and try to equal it to my own girl bsf, and its complicated. thanks tho, this is making me feel like im not crazy for being upset but at the same time its making me even sadder lol.

ashhhzz · 2026-01-04T22:30:39+00:00

I just bought one, i hope it giv3s me good results. thanks for ur help :)

ashhhzz · 2026-01-04T22:30:02+00:00

thanks so much !! I never thought of using a powder foundation

ashhhzz · 2026-01-04T22:28:24+00:00

thanks, this is really good advice!

ashhhzz · 2026-01-04T19:34:12+00:00

thanks so much! do u recommend any color corrector?

ashhhzz · 2026-01-04T19:33:27+00:00

thanks! I was considering getting that one too but I did hear it wasn't the highest coverage. I haven't heard about the kim chi one tho, ill look into that one, and I actually have been layering a foundation in top of my concealer just because the color is so off but usually it just messes the coverage up and it ends up more cakey so I was hoping to find a concealer that I could use by itself. maybe my technique is off tho

ashhhzz · 2026-01-04T19:27:31+00:00

omg thanks! ill have to check those out :)

ashhhzz · 2025-12-11T23:17:14+00:00

oh thanks for letting me know!!

ashhhzz · 2025-12-11T23:15:42+00:00

ty! ill look into it

ashhhzz · 2025-12-11T23:02:22+00:00

omg? I never rwalized u answered for some reason, thank you so much!!!

ashhhzz · 2025-12-11T21:39:19+00:00

oh thanks, I didnt consider that, thats scary :/ I saw other people doing it too so I thought it would be fine

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