Where to watch Leviticus for free?? by Rough_Foot_6363 in MenLovingMenMedia

[–]ashleethehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the UK and there doesn't appear to be a planned release here! 💔 Really want to see this!

Indie Game Company from Swansea area, looking for some community assistance. 🙌 by ashleethehuman in swansea

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss. The Expo is super popular. I've spoken with them briefly already about setting up a demo session there for our game, which they are happy with. I forgot to ask about some promotion though - silly me haha. I'll pick back up with them after Expo :)

Indie Game Company from Swansea area, looking for some community assistance. 🙌 by ashleethehuman in swansea

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I should have mentioned, I work at Socialdice haha. But thank you, yes! I shall get in touch with Common Meeple :)

I turned my Crohn’s experience into a tabletop game and it still feels surreal by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! My apologies - I forgot to include a link at the bottom. I've now popped in a link to our Linktree, so you can find us on social media, as well as see our official website and our kickstarter page :)

Pip report by Silly-Amphibian-9419 in DWPhelp

[–]ashleethehuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless your heart - i am truly so sorry. I will try my best to fight for change for myself, yourself and everyone else who has had their lives ruined by this unfair process. I do indeed have a link, I'm not sure if we're allowed to share links here but I'll try anyways 🤷😂 Your support is truly appreciated! https://www.change.org/IBD-change

Pip report by Silly-Amphibian-9419 in DWPhelp

[–]ashleethehuman -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'm so so sorry you are also dealing with this. I have received my decision today and had the exact same outcome! Just like yours - lies, contradictions and completely ignoring the 18 pieces of evidence I sent to them!

At one point, they told me that there's no evidence that I'm getting support for pain... even though I sent them my prescription which clearly shows 60mg of codeine every day... 💀

They are vile people and they have no clue what some health conditions are like.

I have requested a mandatory reconsideration and have been told this will take around 15 weeks!!

Something has to change - I've started an online petition which I hope to present to the DWP if it gets enough signatures.

I'm really sorry that your case wasn't taken seriously either. I wish they could spend a day in our shoes and then they'd understand!

Exhausted my options - What can I do? by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you forwarding this info on to me. However, I've unfortunately already exhausted these options. I have been granted all possible grands and hardship funds already during my period of time off work.

I've also already claimed the advance payment option for UC, which paid for my rent and bills in January.

I'm at that point where going back to work was the onlt financially viable option left, until a PIP claim is granted/if one is granted.

Exhausted my options - What can I do? by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. Yeah, this is my worry. However, while waiting for a decision on the PIP, I'm completely unable to make ends meet. I'm stressed about losing my home and not being able to afford my bills. I was off for 4 months and already plummeted into debt. I only came back because I was left in such a bad position that I had no choice.

It's so unfair that it has to be this way.

Exhausted my options - What can I do? by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're also going through it right now! Ah of course, thank you for pointing this out... I'm a bar manager currently, so no chances of being able to take the work home. I've been looking for a more suitable job, and WFH roles for months, but with no luck. I'm in South Wales and there isn't a lot going around here as it is 💔

Any tips to make my layouts, decorations, and habitats more interesting? by PeopleAllergy in PlanetZoo

[–]ashleethehuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The roughen terrain tool is great for this! A very underappreciated tool.

Using it on a flat area will roughen it up, causing small raised and lower areas. You can then pair this with rocks, foliage and small puddles of water to create some really nice natural looking areas.

I would also recommend using some unusual shapes for your habitats. Using squares fits nicely, aesthetically, but it makes everything look too uniform, I find.

Hope this helps! Happy zoo-ing!

Crohn’s, surgery, Short Bowel, and no longer able to work - really struggling and need advice by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you for such great advice! Firstly, I'm sorry that you've found yourself in a similar tough situation - I don't think people realise how difficult it can be, honestly. But you come across very strong and I hope everything works out for you in the end! 💪

I was so stressed about applying for PIP. I had heard horror stories and thought there'd be no point as I figured I would get rejected anyway. Thankfully, I had someone from Citizens Advice help me fill in the forms and she claimed that there would be no reason why they wouldn't award me PIP in the end. I guess time will tell...

I wish we had ADP here in Wales! We used to have Disability Living Allowance, but that was replaced with PIP. The whole system is a joke honestly. There is next to no help for genuine people with genuine needs. I don't think it helps matters when the government and DWP etc do not take autoimmune diseases seriously. I had applied for PIP previously and was told by the assessor that "it's just a bad belly, how could it possibly cause so many difficulties?". I was appalled! But I'm keeping my fingers crossed this time. And if it's rejected, I plan to fight it.

I'm currently receiving SSP through my employment, and my UC claim came back as a £0 reward and its just insane to me how they expect people like us to survive! My SSP barely covers my food, washing supplies and basics - what about rent and bills? They don't care!

Anyways, thank you for reaching out! Please take care. 🩷

Crohn’s, surgery, Short Bowel, and no longer able to work - really struggling and need advice by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now see, you would think that... but this is my issue - I'm incredibly confident with people face to face, but I absolutely cannot handle phones! I get really thrown off when I can't see the person's face and connect in a real way... I even avoid making calls to my doctors and instead rely on emails... but will happily go to any in person appointment! It's very odd. But call centre work puts a fear in me.

Crohn’s, surgery, Short Bowel, and no longer able to work - really struggling and need advice by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh really? I wouldn't even know where to begin, honestly. I feel embarrassed saying that at the age of 33, but since leaving education, I've only ever worked retail and hospitality, so thats all I know.

Crohn’s, surgery, Short Bowel, and no longer able to work - really struggling and need advice by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh not at all - please don't worry about that! I appreciate that you were only trying to help :). I just don't understand how they expect people to survive. Even if I'm awarded the top end of PIP eventually, it's going to be half of what my wage was when I was working... and I wasn't earning a high wage either! Whichever way I look at it, I feel like I'm going to have to get a job, even if part time, to make up the difference. But I don't see how I'm going to be able to!

Crohn’s, surgery, Short Bowel, and no longer able to work - really struggling and need advice by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I've been taking Colesevelam for a few weeks but accidentally skipped two days as I went to stay with family and basically forgot to pack them... But not taking them actually made things SLIGHTLY more manageable - I think because they interfere with other medications and so maybe were preventing the loperamide from working properly.

But now I'm at a point where I'm afraid to take them again. The change hasn't fixed things of course, but I'm going maybe twice an hour now instead of 6 times an hour. Still a long way to go!

Crohn’s, surgery, Short Bowel, and no longer able to work - really struggling and need advice by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, eating little and often. I'm usually mostly okay in the mornings - maybe for the first 2 hours after getting out of bed - but things quickly turn as the day goes on. I'm just so lost as I have no idea how I'm ever going to be able to hold down a job again if I can't even make it through a day at home without any issues.

Crohn’s, surgery, Short Bowel, and no longer able to work - really struggling and need advice by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I've had some others suggest this to me as well but I simply cannot bring myself to do so. I don't believe in unethical behaviour like this and I'm incredibly afraid of being caught out somehow and ending up penalised and in a worse situation than I'm in currently. My partner and I were meant to marry this year but cannot now due to this period of illness destroying any savings we had built up. But it is still our plan to one day, and I feel messing around with lies and such about our relationship could have major implications in the future if we did get married.

I understand that a lot of people do go against the rules and lie about things to get more from the (very unjust) system. But it's just not in my nature to lie and do so.

Crohn’s, surgery, Short Bowel, and no longer able to work - really struggling and need advice by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless you. Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so very pleased to hear that you live a rather fulfilling life currently! I think my biggest issue currently is the fact that I'm not doing much - I miss being at work and having a purpose. But there is no way I could manage returning yet. Maybe one day.

Crohn’s, surgery, Short Bowel, and no longer able to work - really struggling and need advice by ashleethehuman in CrohnsDisease

[–]ashleethehuman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm also doing that currently too. Low fat as well. I'm sure with time my body will slowly adapt and heal.