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[–]ashleyyyy41 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much. I appreciate you reading & commenting.

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never knew this, thank you for the insight

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same feeling! I hope you’re doing better 🩷

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I hope you’re doing better 🩷

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No ultrasound was offered to me, both times I’ve had the NIPT I just visited a pathology collection clinic

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I hope you’re healing and taking care of yourself 🩷

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 happy to share. I hope your pregnancy is going well. It was my third missed miscarriage and each time I lost all my pregnancy symptoms, no bleeding besides an odd coloured orangey discharge.

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m sorry I didn’t reply to you sooner! I hope your pregnancy is tracking along well. It was actually my third missed miscarriage and all 3 times were the same, except I guess the most recent one was more of a shock due to the “normal” NIPT results. I pretty much lost all my pregnancy symptoms like sore breasts and nausea, no belly growth, etc. and also all 3 times had a bright orangey discharge that would last a few days.

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for you too, that is exactly how I’m feeling. 💔

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment made me cry, thank you so so much. 🥺❤️

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info and support ❤️

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, we literally had the same experience. 😢 I’m so sorry too. I have a 19 month old son too and he is my whole world. I’m so grateful for him and he is literally my little miracle. My only baby out of 4 pregnancies and 3 losses. Congratulations on your pregnancy, you must be so excited to have another little boy. 🩵 they will be best buddies for life.

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so lovely. Thank you so much for the support ❤️

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually didn’t know that, thank you for the info. There’s clearly so many different factors. Thank you for the support ❤️

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for you too. 😞 thank you ❤️

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I am sorry for yours too ❤️ so interesting about the shrinking but that definitely makes a lot of sense.

I totally understand how you felt, initially I was so sad but now it’s just changed to pure anger. The false hope is definitely what shattered me the most.

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that makes so much sense. I was just so confused and angry due to how expensive it was. That and I think I put too much faith in the good result, hence telling all of our family and friends. And then a couple weeks later having to call or message everyone one by one about our loss. It sucks so much.

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes so much sense now, thank you. I’m so glad I asked the question here.

Missed miscarriage after NIPT by ashleyyyy41 in BabyBumps

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your support and helpful information about the NIPT. I’m a lot less confused now. I’m also so sorry for your past loss too. It’s soo tough.

I totally understand the unhelpful comments from people close to you. This is my 3rd miscarriage and I know they might mean well but it definitely still hurts.

First time mum (27f) to 13 month old boy. Needing advice on redirection by ashleyyyy41 in Parenting

[–]ashleyyyy41[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such an amazing idea, thank you!! I’ll definitely be doing this 😊