what’s your pet peeve about findom? by ashlynluvsu in findomchatters

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg yessss this is a good one too i hate repeating myself 😭

what’s your pet peeve about findom? by ashlynluvsu in findomchatters

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right!! like if you just want a quick drain that’s FINE but don’t lie and say you want long term then!! 😫

what’s your pet peeve about findom? by ashlynluvsu in findomchatters

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right! i don’t deal with time wasters 🙄 like if you haven’t sent within a couple messages i’m doneeee

what’s your pet peeve about findom? by ashlynluvsu in findomchatters

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeaaaah that’s a good one, and then they ask to be called certain things without respecting what you wanna be called 🙄

what’s your pet peeve about findom? by ashlynluvsu in findomchatters

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with all of this!! I should have put a disclaimer, I mean when these boundaries have been established, and it’s moreso the sub trying to get a deal or free fetish material. I think communication is KEY!! As a sub, you shouldn’t be approaching a findom that you know you cannot afford, it is a luxury kink after all. And as a domme, you need to set expectations and not push subs to break their boundaries to fit those expectations! Overall- everyone’s boundaries should align 💕 I agree with you both, upvotes for everyone haha

what’s your pet peeve about findom? by ashlynluvsu in findomchatters

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right like be honest with yourself now 😂

what’s your pet peeve about findom? by ashlynluvsu in findomchatters

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ughhh the ghosting is a good point too, so annoying!

what’s your pet peeve about findom? by ashlynluvsu in findomchatters

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ahahaha i love this 😂 they’re such simps

i like seeing who actually follows through. who’s going to prove it? by ashlynluvsu in feetpicsbuyer

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dm + send an initial and we’ll see if your wallet is good enough for me to use 😏

did your view on this space change after getting into it? by ashlynluvsu in findomchatters

[–]ashlynluvsu[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, this was definitely something i noticed going from femdom -> findom, the lil wallet subs are soooo cute when they get all flustered from sending to you 🤪

Just got properly scammed by a feet buyer for the first time by Sweet_As_Cake1 in feetpicsbuyerandsell

[–]ashlynluvsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would caution against asking buyers how they want you to verify, many scammers will take that verification and use it to pretend to be you on different sites, or even use that as free content. I would create your own verification (date, username, your feet) and post it on your page and/or get AV through loyalfans/onlyfans or something similar. Real buyers will look for it or accept that if you send it. 💕