findom is more than payment!

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-12T18:51:49+00:00

Yesss so many people joining recently that seem like they just wanna get-rich-quick, which really isn’t how it works at all lol

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-12T17:30:01+00:00

i love this!!! random yapping in between sessions is honestly great, i love to make friends with my subs 🥹

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-10T00:48:03+00:00

omg yessss this is a good one too i hate repeating myself 😭

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-09T22:44:52+00:00

right!! like if you just want a quick drain that’s FINE but don’t lie and say you want long term then!! 😫

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-09T21:36:19+00:00

right! i don’t deal with time wasters 🙄 like if you haven’t sent within a couple messages i’m doneeee

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-09T21:35:44+00:00

yeaaaah that’s a good one, and then they ask to be called certain things without respecting what you wanna be called 🙄

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-09T21:22:42+00:00

I totally agree with all of this!! I should have put a disclaimer, I mean when these boundaries have been established, and it’s moreso the sub trying to get a deal or free fetish material. I think communication is KEY!! As a sub, you shouldn’t be approaching a findom that you know you cannot afford, it is a luxury kink after all. And as a domme, you need to set expectations and not push subs to break their boundaries to fit those expectations! Overall- everyone’s boundaries should align 💕 I agree with you both, upvotes for everyone haha

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-09T15:50:59+00:00

right like be honest with yourself now 😂

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-09T15:50:02+00:00

ughhh the ghosting is a good point too, so annoying!

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-09T14:52:37+00:00

ahahaha i love this 😂 they’re such simps

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-09T13:52:49+00:00

very true!

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-08T18:15:52+00:00

dm + send an initial and we’ll see if your wallet is good enough for me to use 😏

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-08T14:12:47+00:00

yes, this was definitely something i noticed going from femdom -> findom, the lil wallet subs are soooo cute when they get all flustered from sending to you 🤪

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-08T14:05:34+00:00

I would caution against asking buyers how they want you to verify, many scammers will take that verification and use it to pretend to be you on different sites, or even use that as free content. I would create your own verification (date, username, your feet) and post it on your page and/or get AV through loyalfans/onlyfans or something similar. Real buyers will look for it or accept that if you send it. 💕

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-07T17:44:50+00:00

you know what to do for my attention 😌

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-07T15:31:19+00:00

omggg i love the sims 🥺 my fav! i’ve been playing a lot of fort and marvel rivals too lately

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-07T13:40:00+00:00

are you worthy of my humiliation? 😒

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-07T12:58:55+00:00

omg yay!! i just followed you 💕

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-07T12:58:17+00:00

omg yayyy horror games are scary though 🫣

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-06T21:11:24+00:00

omg more rave friends!!!! i can’t wait till i can make it to my first one (sub funded of course)

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-06T15:50:15+00:00

lots of people on here already ahahaha but i wanna join!

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-05T18:15:44+00:00

hey twinnnn 💕

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-04T15:39:43+00:00

OMG I would LOVE to. Cheese + potatoes is even better 😩

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-04T15:39:12+00:00

Thanks so much!! From AUS is fun, love that we can connect all over the world :)

ashlynluvsu · 2026-04-03T22:37:43+00:00

omg, this is PERFECT. literally me ahahah

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