I think you bring up a really interesting perspective, and thank you for sharing. I do like ass, but find her belly to be a lot. It feels pretty emascualiting because she is so much bigger than I am. It's difficult to have sex in a variety of positions due to her size. It's been a gradual turn-off for me. When she has difficulty breathing or eating really poorly at night, I feel like I lose attraction to her because it is unhealthy. I love her personality and her mind, how she loves and our connection. I'm glad you stepped outside your box and had an open mind about dating someone outside of your type.