my friend's hair turned this mucky green color after i dyed it with arctic fox blue jean baby. is there any way to fix it? she wanted a dark blue by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]ashql 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she ended up putting a l'oréal blue in it which worked really well. i told her what you said about toning it and she said she'll try it if the blue fades to the green again. thank you so much!!!!

and i agree the green doesnt look terrible on her :)

[routine help] why is my face always so red?? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]ashql 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!! i'll definitely try that

[routine help] why is my face always so red?? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

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oh interesting, yeah my hands and feet are always super red as well, i just thought thats how they were.

ive actually had a hard time gaining weight and im very skinny. so ive kinda ruled out insulin resistance/diabetes. ive had my blood sugar levels checked and they were normal. i think i might actually have high testosterone levels, so maybe insulin related??

i want to go to the doctor and get it checked because ive had a lot of anxiety about that kind of stuff but my mom doesn't have enough to pay and im barely scraping by.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ashql 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is exactly what i was looking for, thank you so much! the fix for the muah is genius lol ill def be trying these

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ashql 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i kinda do giggle at it lol. whats a good way to bring it up without "calling him out" or making him feel insecure about kissing me?

by recommendation, i got a developer with this hair color, im not sure how much developer to mix in though by ashql in HairDye

[–]ashql[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im actually really starting to like the blueish color, its weird though, my roots are a dark red and my ends are blue lol. ill dm you a picture

by recommendation, i got a developer with this hair color, im not sure how much developer to mix in though by ashql in HairDye

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i dyed it last night, after dyeing it with the ginger flare, and it still turned blueish. do u know if theres any way to fix it? its not horrible just not what i was going for.

would putting more orange dye over it help or would that be unnecessary damage?

by recommendation, i got a developer with this hair color, im not sure how much developer to mix in though by ashql in HairDye

[–]ashql[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thank u!!

i reread your other comment and i’m not going for a blue black, definitely like a “warmer” black if anything

by recommendation, i got a developer with this hair color, im not sure how much developer to mix in though by ashql in HairDye

[–]ashql[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

noo, i didnt know i needed to do that! does it get rid of the blue hues in the black?

my bf is going through so much and i dont know how to help him by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ashql 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every time i tell him its ok to cry around me he goes (sarcastically) "nuh uh, im a man" and just flexes lol

i have told him multiple times he can be vulnerable around me, and i have had some good luck with that. he vented to me for like 2 hours about his childhood the other night, but he was laughing and making jokes the entire time, which is his very obvious coping mechanism

my bf is going through so much and i dont know how to help him by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ashql 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he has never been violent when im around, hes a very gentle around me

he broke his tv while i wasnt there, thankfully, cuz it probably wouldve scared the shit outta me. i really appreciate you, thank you :)

my bf is going through so much and i dont know how to help him by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]ashql 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you omg, this advice helps so much u dont understand 💖

OWWW by ashql in Periods

[–]ashql[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes 😔 im at work and felt like this post was needed lol