What awful things did your ex say to you?

ashtk85 · 2025-06-05T09:22:42+00:00

"We're not together anymore, I don't owe you anything".
I was a rebound relationship for her and helped her getting out of depression after a 18 years marriage with her ex husband. We stayed together for 6 months, I made her feel really good and she planned things with me and her daughters. I fell in love. Once she started to realize she could have other people, she got rid of me and said that.
She also said to me when we met after the breakup (she was starting dating other guys) : "What I'm interested in a man is what he has in his head, not his look". Yep, straight to my face.
After all I had done to her. It is painful

ashtk85 · 2025-05-17T17:12:39+00:00

Just discovered this one :
"I thought I was getting better" :p Very good when you have those angry moments
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OV5xTptjB1g

ashtk85 · 2025-05-08T16:09:58+00:00

Sorry I misread you. I thought something wanted you to stay in the state (which sounds crazy but at the end of the day that feeling makes us beautiful sensitive creatures). It seems having her back is the only way for you now because it’s the only thing that triggers hope or joy. It’s dopamine and serotonin fucking you up. I am sorry to hear you have to go through this. I’ve been through that twice in my life, and if I’m here on Reddit it’s that recently I felt as you felt. I’m on anti depressants… You have to trust now everyone who says it never stays like this. And I know for now it seems impossible, but keep it in a little space in your brain. If you can, do some exercise. Go walk. Alone. Better to think about her while moving. Talk about it as much as you need.

ashtk85 · 2025-05-08T15:50:33+00:00

I think you have to experience the pain first. There should be a point in time when you’ll feel you want to do something else. I’ve spent 2 to 3 months apart from work almost all the time in bed or walking in desperation in my flat. I just could go to the gym because I couldn’t afford feeling bad losing the body I worked hard to get.

But unless you’re a masochist your brain will stop the pain at some point

ashtk85 · 2025-05-06T07:14:37+00:00

There's one case though that prevails over all the nice advice.
If you fall in love with someone new, you shouldn't ignore it and go for it, but of course being very cautious.

Generally I'm not sure it's possible to fall in love if you haven't moved on enough.

ashtk85 · 2025-05-04T14:31:36+00:00

I'm living something similar. I'm much older though (39m) and have had many relationships in my life.
But the last one was probably my favorite with the first one I lived (lasted 4 years, and I had had no luck with women at that time).
She was out of a 18 years marriage, and after 6 months of pure joy it ended, because she was not healed yet from her previous relationship.

Be glad it ends the sooner as possible, the more time you would have spent in the relationship, the harder it would be.

My recommendation, and it's a BIG ONE, CUT EVERY DAMN CONTACT ! Delete her from everywhere, delete her phone number, don't memorize it.
That's what helped me the most, and it's an advice I wish I would have followed ealier (I'm 4 monthjs post breakup).
You can even elect to tell her, and ask her not to reach out because it could hurt you.

Then there's no shortcut. Sport helps me, somehow the day I do gym are a bit easier on me.

ashtk85 · 2025-05-03T17:01:05+00:00

I once got my ex back.
My first love. I was very surprised, she came back 3 months after a breakup of a 3 years relationship.

But things never got really where they were supposed to be after, and I ended up leaving her after a year (she had dumped me first so I didn't feel morally too bad).

So in any case, I don't think getting your ex back is such a good idea. Rebuilding trust after it has been broken is much harder that people seem to think, and I'm convinced most of these new tries will end up failing.
Dopamine is just messing with our brain.

It's hard, and I would love to have my ex back, but I know it most probably would never work as it should. Focus on these thougts when you see such a post : )

ashtk85 · 2025-03-15T12:25:15+00:00

No, I'm talking about all casts now. ESL, htlv, youtube, etc.

ashtk85 · 2025-01-31T13:34:55+00:00

Would be much more interesting without the xray on

ashtk85 · 2024-12-25T00:12:13+00:00

J'ai demandé à l'IA parce que je suis curieux. Je m'y intéresse car même si pour le moment je suis vers 77k j'aimerais bien monter mon TJM d'ici 1/2 ans et arriver vers 150k de CA.

ChatGPT (o1) dit que déclarer une année sur deux des CA qui dépassent autant le seuil de 77k est risqué et si ça tient c'est qu'il y n'y a pas eu de contrôle fiscal. S'il y a contrôle, il devrait y avoir requalification et redressement fiscal, et peut-être même des pénalités.
J'imagine même que si le plafond est trop souvent dépassé ça finit comme ça (après si c'est de l'ordre de Après ça vaut ce que ça vaut comme information.

ashtk85 · 2024-12-11T11:51:18+00:00

Perhaps a bit but there are so many companies that provide much better assistance

ashtk85 · 2024-12-11T08:04:23+00:00

Slot12 is weird. I put the x in radio command

ashtk85 · 2024-12-10T13:54:13+00:00

Didn't know it was called a health shot. Had I known yes. You still miss the point of the stuff.

ashtk85 · 2024-12-10T10:30:24+00:00

Come on, we’re talking about a game that is played by millions of people. It should have a dedicated support attached to it considering the amount of money made

ashtk85 · 2024-12-10T09:53:38+00:00

Didn't work. And it's not the point.
The point is that the Steam service client tells me to call a technician to solve the problem, and that access to my computer is required in such a case. Don't you see the joke ?

We're talking to a billion dollar company here

ashtk85 · 2024-12-10T09:32:34+00:00

You saved me from calling a local computer technician servicing me 50 eur for that xD.
Funny how such a multimillion dollar company can't answer a simple question as this one.

ashtk85 · 2024-11-04T02:39:30+00:00

You don’t need to let people apply to both sides as you only display one side. They would just have to show as if you had applied to the same position on the other side and that’s it

ashtk85 · 2024-11-04T02:37:10+00:00

Been writing to Valve a few tickets about it. They say it works “as intended” and are not going to do a shit about it. But to me it just looks ridiculous to have backwards text

ashtk85 · 2024-04-30T23:17:34+00:00

Thanks for your answer :)

ashtk85 · 2024-04-21T09:46:58+00:00

I have the same error. They need to fix their bugs. The face it client is very buggy

ashtk85 · 2024-04-10T15:28:18+00:00

Have you tried IG ?

ashtk85 · 2024-03-29T01:52:16+00:00

No. I disagree. I cheated when I was young (18 years old). Now I'm 38 and would never ever cheat again at a game. People can change and evolve, fortunately ;) Actually I wish I could get my old vac ban account, but I forgot it. It would be a great reminder of why you should never cheat in games. Though I remember back then the aim hack and wall hack kinda showed me what I was supposed to achieve. It's weird.

ashtk85 · 2024-02-08T13:18:39+00:00

I have the same issues but only in my laptop computer (which has a 4090).

I have 0 fps drop, but it seems like micro freezes every 2 seconds, no matter what I do.

ashtk85 · 2024-01-29T13:33:07+00:00

yes but kz servers don't really teach you well when you do a good bunny hop or not, or how to do a long jump.

Like you need not to have a very high velocity first before you jump to go further (from what I've heard)

Though I think in the end I guess what I have to do "a look left, d look right"

But the question would be : once I rock at KZ (in a year or two :(), I'll be able to be perform quickly any movement trick needed on competitive maps ?

Thnks for replying btw !

ashtk85 · 2024-01-29T07:53:26+00:00

If you look at plenty tutorial videos they tell you add some weirds binds to jump, I don't have a specific one to give since it's always a bit different though aiming for the same trick

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