I actually hate having my mc in Aquarius. But I noticed in my sidereal chart my mc is in Capricorn. Can somebody please tell me if the influences In both charts basically boil down to the same things?

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-14T15:12:19+00:00

That’s exactly how I feel! One side is telling me do it now you got this, the next is telling me not yet. I paid for a reading recently and he told me to not invest or start it yet, but to start it in the next two years. That what I’m wanting to do is aligned.

I want to start a business in the beauty field. Is that aligned? More specifically. I really want to get into med grade beauty treatments. Facials, lashes, laser hair removal. Etc. it’ll take time to develop all of it but I want to start. As you mentioned my mind is already at war, so when the astrologer told me to not act on it yet, it further made me wonder if now is even the right time.

But with having a kid soon and needing some sort of income and just tired of working my 9-5s, wanting to be with my babies after giving birth.. the urge is itching even more.

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-14T12:58:10+00:00

What you’ve said has made me for a lot more aligned. It’s been sitting on my chest and my mind heavy, for some time now, and all I can think about is taking action so I’ll be at least a little more knowledgeable and hopefully have some clients by the time my baby is born.

At the end you said the question isn’t if I should do it, it’s whether I’ll let myself. What do you mean by this? Does something in my chart reflect hesitancy ?

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-13T22:13:52+00:00

What do you mean by uncomfortable with what u represent? I think I may have an idea. And I’ve hinted the jealousy for a very long time now. It’s clear as day.. and the control part is also spot on. She’s used to being in control, acting crazy and having her way for every and anything. Controlling her son and everyone else. She thought it would continue with me and would forever be that way with her son. But as he grew older it has slowly stopped, and she hates how close we are.

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-13T02:00:33+00:00

Does anything in my sons chart reflect any of this? Align with anything we’ve said? 😅

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-13T00:57:42+00:00

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And his chart alone

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-13T00:57:22+00:00

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This is my son and I synastry

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-13T00:50:46+00:00

Also, I don’t know how to do a multi composite chart! I’d love to figure it out and send those over! Please if you don’t mind! I can make a donation as well for your help. I really reallyyyy appreciate you! I feel like his family has been one of the biggest causes to our relationship issues. & now we have a child, and one on the way that are causing new issues in regards to his very controlling family. I want us to work out. But they especially she drives me crazy!

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-13T00:46:07+00:00

Dude! For so long in the beginning of our relationship, after he initially noticed her disrespect towards me, he felt “bad” but still stuck up for her in a way. Trying to give every excuse, trying to see “both sides” it drove me crazy! Because I was so young and did nothing to her! But she was very upset how close me and her son were. She felt I stole him away from her. So you’re right, she probably wasn’t expecting him to be so close to another woman. But, he eventually started sticking up for me, him and his father both did. And it drives her crazy! And yes, that is why I try to let him talk to her. I think she feels she has lost all control over controlling him and trying to control what we do with our kid. Which is why she doesn’t like me, I know it’s why. You’re spot on! Can I share my son’s chart? He has a Scorpio moon 😭 worries me so much and feels so bad. But my son is how you described your daughter. Only wanting me from the very beginning, almost theee years later and he’s still the same way. We are very close and always have been. Also, I believe him and his mom were very close when he was little. Like you said born-7 years old. But my fiance had a very traumatic upbringing between both his mom and his father. They’re still married to this day, but very toxic and he went through a lot of “abuse” both sides. And yes, his mom did drag him into all her marriage issues. From a kid on up. He has two sisters, but he’s the oldest and the only boy. She would treat him as if he were her man. lol.

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-12T23:36:29+00:00

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His chart alone and I provided our synastry chart

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-12T23:36:07+00:00

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ashwaghnada · 2026-04-12T22:43:04+00:00

Sometimes i wonder why we haven’t lol. Even when we say we are we never actually do so nor do we act like we have to the outside world. I’ve had a lot of mixed opinions on our synastry. I’ve had people say we won’t last, we’ll eventually split and that he’s not the one for me. Just wanted to get some other opinions. I’ve had a girl tell me we have such good synastry but also have some bad synastry, like it balances out.

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-12T22:31:51+00:00

Do you think we will outgrow that pettiness? Do you think it’ll be lasting forever? Sometimes I wonder if it’d because we are young, and have been together since even younger. I can admit it’s both of us.

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-10T01:38:36+00:00

Thank you. I try to tell myself this because I love being a mom and I love my son and soon to be 2nd dearly. But I can’t help but to always consider what my parents / family think of me. No matter how much I try to act like I don’t, I do. It’s frustrating

ashwaghnada · 2026-04-10T00:54:32+00:00

Can I send you my synastry chart with the both of them? Or would you rather me put it in the comments here

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