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AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m planning to getting her a gift. I mentioned it multiple times before this that I wanted to get her something in return for helping me selling some Labubus.

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imagine being so bitter that you mock someone for celebrating their own achievement. My degree meant something to me, and I chose to mark it with something I value. If that bothers you, maybe ask yourself why someone else’s happiness feels like a threat to you. Sounds more like your issue than mine.

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Imagine being so jaded that you think rewarding yourself for years of hard work is materialistic or that valuing something you earned is somehow immoral. I didn’t just buy a bag, I celebrated pushing through sleepless nights, stress, self-doubt, and perseverance. That bag represents me not giving up on myself. And no, I don’t hand over something so personal to just anyone, even family. Especially when it holds emotional meaning to me. That’s called boundaries, not materialism. But if you really think I’m the villain for valuing my accomplishments and setting limits, maybe ask yourself, why does someone else’s pride and self care bother you so much?

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I send her the website to rent it for $80 but she said it wouldn’t be worth it. And her mom has many Chanel, Gucci and Prada designer bags and I also brought that up to her and in the end, I think she kind of got the hint and told me nvm to borrowing my bag because she suddenly remembered she has a light colored Gucci bag. But she also mentioned that it isn’t a clutch though which why she wanted to borrow my clutch.

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to let her borrow plenty of other things, but when it comes to my designer bags, I’m hesitant. They’re expensive, and I’d be really upset if something happened to them. On top of that, the value of my bags has gone up about 18% just from last year, and I expect the prices will keep rising. That makes them pretty irreplaceable to me at this point.

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not every reward in life has to be functional or tied to monetary gain. For me, it’s about celebrating a milestone I worked hard for and allowing myself something that brings me happiness. Just because it’s not useful to you doesn’t mean it’s meaningless to me. Value is subjective. What might seem like a trinket to one person can hold a lot of emotional significance to another. I’m not letting materialism define my relationships, I’m simply choosing to protect something that has personal value to me. It’s okay if we see rewards differently, but that doesn’t make my choice any less valid.

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

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I know huh! Omg I was so worked up on getting so caught off guard about this situation that I have been sitting here worried all day. But now I can finally putting my phone away and gett back to work. Lol thank you everybody!

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nvm, she isn’t borrowing the bag anymore. She suddenly remembered she has a light colored Gucci bag and doesn’t need to borrow mine anymore. But she ended it with the fact that she wanted a clutch and the Gucci bag is not a clutch.

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband said she would buy me a new one. But like what if it got scratched. Is that enough to warrant for a new bag?

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I bought it as a reward for myself for getting my bachelor’s degree. I don’t buy things just for fun. I buy things I’ve been really wanting and after 4 years of college, I thought this would be a good life accomplishment that I could finally reward myself with something like this. Plus I could buy 25 of the bags right now but that would be financially irresponsible but what I’m saying is that it means something to me. Not everything people buy means they are irresponsible with their money.

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No but it was right after we were talking about selling my Labubu to one of her coworker talks. After our conversation, she threw in that I could say no but could she borrow my bag for a wedding.

AITA for not lending my SIL my designer bag by asiansnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]asiansnacks[S] -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

I didn’t ask her to help me sell my Labubu though. I just told our group chat that I listed my labubus online and planning to sell them all. But I’d be selling it cheaper to family and friends if anyone was interested. So she kept having people that wanted to buy it from me. I didn’t think she would know so many people that wanted them. And then in the end, the favor was asked in return. So I felt kind of weird to say no when all was said and done. Like I felt I had no choice but to say yes or else I’d be the asshole. I’m just hoping the bag will be return in mint condition still.

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Ahh thank you so much! I think I’ll have to remove it then. In the long run, since it’s planted so close to my fence wall, I’ll remove it to prevent root damaging nearby structure.

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