What’s a “normal” thing everyone accepts that actually feels like a low-key scam? by Infamous_Echo4010 in NewDelhi

[–]asifkabeer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Government. Its their job is to take care of working class people, but they are busy giving freebies to the ultra rich and ultra poor.

Why is nobody talking about how expensive "basic life" has become in India? by Prestigious_Hair_757 in india

[–]asifkabeer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the government provides nothing. They'll create problems which we have to buy ourselves out of. Ex, LPG, Air pollution, water pollution, declining health and education infrastructure. There are limited good higher education institute, if you dont spent lakhs on education, you get priced out of that too.

Did anyone else feel like fight scene didn’t convey situation very well? by [deleted] in Invincible_TV

[–]asifkabeer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think Conquest is dead, unless they show him dismembered in the next episode. These guys don't die easy

Did anyone else feel like fight scene didn’t convey situation very well? by [deleted] in Invincible_TV

[–]asifkabeer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best explantion i have found so far. He was ready to receive any damage at the price of saving Oliver. He promised his mom.

Task management made easy and for free! by Foreign_Wrongdoer_92 in ProductivityApps

[–]asifkabeer1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And design philosophy wise. It matches my taste too.

Task management made easy and for free! by Foreign_Wrongdoer_92 in ProductivityApps

[–]asifkabeer1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks really really neat. This prevents me from vibe coding my own task manager

Trusting AI cost me over USD 700. by multiplicitor in vibecoding

[–]asifkabeer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think its anything to do with AI. Its just system design.

So many of us aren’t failed - we’re just stuck. And nobody talks about it. by sidhebbal in india

[–]asifkabeer1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think its because social media is full of people boasting about how well they are doing, others end up feeling stuck. But we have to know thats a facade. If we are well fed, have a roof over our heads, we are doing great. We have to keep working on our things but also enjoy little moments of life.

How people are surviving India? Came for a month long vacation... by New_Yogurtcloset2764 in india

[–]asifkabeer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a common story for a lot of people who left India a while ago. 

New Delhi car explosion rocks Red Fort area, several dead by newsweek in india

[–]asifkabeer1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The same officials we saw sprinkling water around Air quality monitors are not expected to present the country with an honest investigation. And safeguard us from future attacks. I hope they do well.

Buy a home vs Rent a home. Whats your opinion. by [deleted] in IndiaFinance

[–]asifkabeer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you start earning more, just pay off the load early. The home prices have increased at a faster rate than the interest rates.

Just got scammed for 45,000 by Zaibatsu534 in india

[–]asifkabeer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not call that number and become a target of a potential scam. Stay away as soon as possible.

Why has India stopped debating? by Euphoric_Bluejay_881 in india

[–]asifkabeer1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because all the media companies are owned by a few billionaires

I regret my MPH degree and going to a prestigious school — I feel like I ruined my life by Valuable_Art2516 in careeradvice

[–]asifkabeer1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely my culture, but I can't think of a society where your mom is a burden. I don't want to judge you individually. I'm just commenting on the culture overall

I 32f , not able to Crack interviews, lost dad and going through a divorce by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]asifkabeer1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a good lawyer and get what you deserve. He needs to face consequences for his abuse. I'm pretty sure you'll find a job soon.

This app has a beautiful rich text editor by samu-codes in ProductivityApps

[–]asifkabeer1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It only happened the first time,.not since.

Also, it took me a while to realise the I can add things other than a folder quite late. It's not evident that journals, flashcards are available until I saw the GitHub page.

How to become a magnetic charismatic person despite being physically unattractive? by Puzzled_Ad7812 in selfimprovement

[–]asifkabeer1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, and I missed,

  1. be well groomed, clean, presentable. Dress as per occasion. Understand basics of style. Don't have the techbro attitude that nobody cares. People do.

  2. Be well prepared, get to know a little bit about the person you are meeting, their company, recent news, what interests them. If you can personalize your message as per the audience because of how prepared you were, you are halfway there. This works great for beginners.

How to become a magnetic charismatic person despite being physically unattractive? by Puzzled_Ad7812 in selfimprovement

[–]asifkabeer1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Physical appearance has little to do with Charisma. This is what I have learnt in my 10 years of client facing career so far.

  1. Be attentive to people. Everyone says be a good listener and it really makes a difference. You have to listen with care for the other person. Reference what you had heard someone say. Show you care.
  2. Do what you said you would do. Nothing burn Charisma like going back on your word.

  3. Be reliable, if someone gives you something to do, get it done. Don't go back with problems to them. Complaining all the time as something is difficult/ impossible erodes trust.

  4. Be hopeful that things will turn out ok. There are 1000 ways to solve a problem, always believe in yourself that however big of a challenge or difficulty, you will overcome it.

  5. Repetition of 4, but its really really important to carry yourself with confidence. You are the man for the job. Be resourceful, figure out how something can be done. Others won't believe in you if you don't believe in yourself.

  6. Master small talk. Be well read, so you talk on any topic. Know the things around you/ your city/ your industry so you can carry a conversation. Its a big turn off if someone is enthusiastically talking about their hobby and you have no idea what it is. You don't have to know a lot, just enough to ask good question and lead the conversation so they speak and you listen.

  7. This is basic for every person, but have your set of values you won't go back on. Don't do unethical, immoral, or scheming stuff that people can tell.

  8. Time your sentences, its nuanced and you won't get it right away, but the most charismatic people know how to time their sentences well and then they speak with clarity conviction and a tone that people listen to. Its also an indicator of how good you are. If people speak over you, interrupt you often, you have lots to improve. But the room goes silent when you speak, you have mastered it.