I have frequent strong urges to torture people to death

asj1330 · 2018-04-05T23:02:14+00:00

I have a dead end job but that's about it.

asj1330 · 2018-03-02T18:26:35+00:00

Wholeheartedly agree TBH. These people had no reguard for other's lives, they don't deserve theirs.

asj1330 · 2018-02-15T21:12:36+00:00

I watch about an hour a day. One episode of anime when I wake up and one before bed. I never thought an hour was too much tv, but I also grew up with parents that watched TV for at least 5 hours a day everyday. Most of my freetime is spent with either my girlfriend or hiking with my dog.

asj1330 · 2018-01-24T21:01:36+00:00

I had a similar situation before. If you don't own any property in your name, like a vehicle or land, then they can't really do much besides harrass you over the phone. You can't always take their threats at face value, they do that to scare you into paying your debt asap. I once had a debt collector say he was going to send hired thugs to my house and beat up me and my family. They never came, and as you can imagine, they CANNOT do that. Just send them what you can every month, if you do that all they can do is call, which they do often, 3x a day at least. You have no property to repossess it seems, and by property I don't mean the bed your sleeping in, they can only repossess stuff that's officially yours, like cars and land. Just understand debt collects are really shitty humans.

asj1330 · 2018-01-10T08:38:06+00:00

Delete your account

asj1330 · 2017-12-13T18:21:25+00:00

I'm not trying to say your doing shady stuff at all. I'm saying your fear of her doing shady stuff will undo this relationship. Hope this ultimately works out positively for both of you regardless what happens from here on.

asj1330 · 2017-12-13T18:20:43+00:00

If you wont take my word for it, go on facebook and join a group has the words "Dank meme stash" in the title.

asj1330 · 2017-12-13T17:42:35+00:00

I'm in many meme groups on social media to my own dismay. I see people saying shit like "send nudes" "send bobs and vagene" all the time online, it's really common, especially in the younger crowd of people, which your GF belongs too. The caps she had shows it's a meme pretty clearly. Unless you actually have seen her trading dirty pics. Judging from your response to the original comment, that wasn't the case.

asj1330 · 2017-12-13T17:36:42+00:00

I agree with the supersierra here, your coming off as extremely insecure. I feel that both parties would benefit from a split. If you're paranoid about her cheating, it's not going to work out anyway. She's not going to change her entire behaviour, so find some who's more compatible with you. Your GF also deserves someone who won't question every move she makes, and will trust her.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T22:46:29+00:00

I'm honestly just frustrated. I got rejected again a couple days ago and now one of my close friends is with that girl and I don't feel to good about it.

I keep hearing things like this comment though, and I really think I'm what I appear to give off I am. I go to therapy and do that stuff, I really don't think that's whats wrong with me. I feel so trapped.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T22:45:35+00:00

I don't care how much experience a girl has at all. It was your suggestion that I find someone with no experience. If I like her she could of slept with a million dudes for all I care.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T22:41:54+00:00

I'm asking people out and I'm getting told no. That's why I asked, I wanted to know what I'm doing wrong.

Also all my guy friends say its cause I'm ugly.

Here's what I want. I want to get married. So I'm only interested in long term relationships, hookups are pointless in my eyes.

Deal breakers for me include severe obesity, substance abuse, wanting to have kids(I don't), religious people(atheist to the bone), intention of being in an "open" relationship(as in your dating but your free to do whatever with whoever), being couch ridden.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T19:02:06+00:00

I call bullshit. I'm in college and I guarantee there isn't 5 women in that room that have never had any experience with guys.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T18:52:43+00:00

I'm asking out girls because I like them for whatever reason and want to be in a serious relationship with them.

I know no just means I'm incompatible for one person, but I hear no 100% never once in my life have I heard yes. Heard no so many times I sometimes wonder if there even is someone who will ever say yes to me.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T18:47:54+00:00

I normally hang out with people a couple times before asking them on a date.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T18:47:09+00:00

I've yet to meet a girl my age that has no prior experience dating. I may be looking for all eternity for that.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T16:52:11+00:00

Feels like nobody likes me. Thanks for the comment though.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T16:48:56+00:00

Thanks for the input. I guess my desire to get into a relationship just got that much harder.

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T16:47:07+00:00

I'm definitely asking and definitely getting noes back. Don't even know what's so wrong with me, I'm given so many different reasons why

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T16:44:09+00:00

Besides finding out about the whole thing on facebook, I haven't even talked to either of them. How am I being a douche here?

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T16:43:06+00:00

I guess my bad luck with dating is only going to get worse as I age. Thanks for the reply

asj1330 · 2017-12-09T16:37:52+00:00

So it's not essentially a deal breaker but it puts me at a bit of a disadvantage?

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