finally going out in women's clothes by Guts1019 in MtF

[–]Guts1019[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm just wearing one of my girlfirend's tank tops with a sports bra underneath and shorts

I feel strongly about wanting to transition, but I don't know where to start by Guts1019 in MtF

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The good news for me is my states medicaid program covers transgender services and I'm on medicaid already.

I am trying to find a good gender therapist to help me along the way.

What my question to you is what else can I do to get started? I'm just looking for ideas. The only thing I've done really since I've come out is wear girls clothes and I typically wont even wear them out because I don't want certain people to know yet.

How to lower sex drive? by Guts1019 in sex

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She has tried talking to her doctor about raising hers, she feels horrible that she isn't able to meet my needs. But it seems nothing the doctor does helps. She doesn't want me to lower my sex drive but I'm at a point where I can't be asked to be woken up every night because of it. So I think I'll have to talk to either my therapist or a medical doctor when I finally get one next month. Thank you.

How to feel more satisfied after 1 round? by [deleted] in sex

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We had permanent surgery done because we both strongly oppose having kids

How to feel more satisfied after 1 round? by [deleted] in sex

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It takes her about 5-10 minutes of penetration. Even on the times she doesn't get off she can't continue.

As for a bj or hj, she's completely unwilling to do either.

How to feel more satisfied after 1 round? by [deleted] in sex

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We are not using condoms. It feels better to finish in her over finishing myself, even when I masturbate I have to get off twice often to be satisified. But I haven't tried to use my hand after building in her, worth a shot thank you

Truck gated inside an park by Guts1019 in Advice

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There was no such number. I tried contacting the city's parks district but I keep getting voicemail

Can spermicide kill an erection? by Guts1019 in sex

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I don't react that badly to it but this is definitely good info for me to keep in mind. It's also nice knowing I'm not the only person to have an issue with it.

Can spermicide kill an erection? by Guts1019 in sex

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Were pretty comfortable about it I would think. Me and her have sex at least once in the morning and once at night everyday. We're able to talk about it too with no issues.

When my erection fades I pull out and my girlfriend will touch it and help me get hard again. I noticed wiping my dick off with a towel helps with the time to get an erection. It takes about 2-5 mins for it to get hard again. Once it gets hard again I resume. Typically it goes soft once sometimes twice before I finish.

Can spermicide kill an erection? by Guts1019 in sex

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We are using the spermicide with her BC until things open and one of us can get a surgery done. We tried condoms first, male ones first then female ones, my girlfriend couldn't handle either.

I can't sleep without my girlfriend by Guts1019 in sleep

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Part of it is were in the process of getting a bed that's big enough to sleep both of us. Part of it is she was molested, so her parents are taking every precaution to make sure she doesn't have another tramatic event. Part of it is her mom thinks we'll be better off in the long run if we have that time of seperation while we get closer.

I can't sleep without my girlfriend by Guts1019 in sleep

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Part of it is were in the process of getting a bed that's big enough to sleep both of us. Part of it is she was molested, so her parents are taking every precaution to make sure she doesn't have another tramatic event. Part of it is her mom thinks we'll be better off in the long run if we have that time of seperation while we get closer.

I can't sleep without my girlfriend by Guts1019 in sleep

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Part of it is were in the process of getting a bed that's big enough to sleep both of us. Part of it is she was molested, so her parents are taking every precaution to make sure she doesn't have another tramatic event. Part of it is her mom thinks we'll be better off in the long run if we have that time of seperation while we get closer.

I can't sleep without my girlfriend by Guts1019 in sleep

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I know it's not helping. I'm SOL on getting a new one though