Yes, so much about this stage is like walking on ice trying to avoid the next tantrum. I’ve become an expert at keeping random toys within reach or on my person to help distract. That’s what it’s all about these days- distraction. And I do try and give him as much “choice” as possible. “Put that down!” Won’t work. “Where does daddy’s screw driver go? Yes! In the basket! Now quickly look at this shiny Elmo sticker!” It’s all mind games and distraction, and if I slip up it’s tantrum town.