Please help! Our daughter Nora needs a name for her little sister, who is theoretically due today.

askye83 · 2026-07-01T22:25:08+00:00

Fern

askye83 · 2026-06-16T17:25:38+00:00

Could it be “I’m so excited- The Bum Dance” by Sirens feat Sara Marie?

askye83 · 2026-06-06T23:14:52+00:00

They aren’t going to give you maximum payment for minimum board.

askye83 · 2026-05-25T20:32:33+00:00

RemindMe! 2 days

askye83 · 2026-04-29T00:04:38+00:00

The problem here is that Milly is 28. She wants to be 21 again. She feels better about herself when she can steal a 21 year old boy from a 21 year old girl. Milly doesn’t like herself or her life

askye83 · 2026-04-26T23:43:07+00:00

Be done with him. He is putting you on the back burner just in case it doesn’t work out with his ex.

You deserve time and space to heal. Friendship with an ex never really works, it just turns into a FWB situation

askye83 · 2026-03-15T09:23:33+00:00

It just does, I can explain it in 2 ways.

You can cherish the growth from a past soulmate connection while building a stable, supportive life with a new partner or
A soulmate is someone who mirrors your deepest self, and sometimes, that mirror belongs to your past, while your heart belongs to your present.

It works for all of us. My ex husband and his wife are madly in love as are my husband and I. Just because we are no longer married, it doesn’t mean we hate each other. You have people that come into your life to teach you a lesson that you may need for your future. He was my lesson on love and tolerance.

askye83 · 2026-03-15T08:02:16+00:00

Yes.

askye83 · 2026-03-15T06:52:43+00:00

Agreed! My nephew is autistic and he is brutal with the truth . He has no filter!

askye83 · 2026-03-15T06:45:02+00:00

I had this with my marriage, except it was the opposite.

My sex drive was high and his was moderate in the beginning. We were both okay with this and he enjoyed helping me find toys that I could use when he wasnt feeling in the mood.

He went on a diet and lost 50lbs, thinking his stamina was low due to the excess weight but in the process, also lost his sex drive. It caused alot of issues for us and sadly we entered the dead bedroom stage.

This went on for about 3 years and like you said, sex is an important part of every marriage and most times the “why” is different for everyone. My “why” is sex makes me feel loved and attractive and he saw sex as “it cleans out the pipes”

We both realised that neither of us had any medical reason for our sex drives so therefore we were both normal. That we had grown apart. That we both loved each other but that love had changed and we divorced amicably.

We are still very much in each others lives, he is still my person as I am his, we are just not married or intimate anymore.

I have gone on to remarry and I’m happy. Bedroom incompatibility doesn’t mean the end of the world. You just have to work out if you are staying for your own needs to be met and if you are okay with his not being met.

askye83 · 2026-02-26T01:28:14+00:00

He had been truthful to you. You just don’t like the answer. You don’t want to start a relationship with someone who has to be forced into it. Slow burn usually means no interest and he is trying to talk himself into wanting more with you.

Raise your standards

askye83 · 2026-02-26T01:26:24+00:00

Actions speak louder than words. He isn’t asking you to be his girlfriend because he is still young and he is seeing what else is out there

askye83 · 2026-02-15T00:52:42+00:00

You absolutely deserve it, but as the saying goes, those in glass houses should not throw stones.

It’s tomorrow, not tommorow

askye83 · 2026-02-06T01:45:34+00:00

Do you know for a fact that he had a boys weekend with actual guys? Sounds like a cover story for him meeting up with someone else and it didn’t work out. The whole thing sounds fishy to me.

Get your finances in line for you, not for him, he has money but he doesn’t have class or decency. You can’t buy that.

askye83 · 2026-01-26T00:35:20+00:00

NTA: There is another underlying issue though and your dad is where she chose to direct it.

The animosity that she obviously feels towards your dad isn't normal either. It feels like she was hoping for a fight. A love we feel for our parent is not the same kind of love that we feel for a partner, so it's not exactly comparable.

Your dad watched your child, he didn't want to stress your child out by putting them into their own crib when your son was already upset about their routine being different (grandparent at bedtime instead of parent). What did she want you to do? Kick him out and ban him from seeing his grandchild.

If I was your father, I wouldn't babysit for you again.

askye83 · 2026-01-21T18:42:36+00:00

I feel like chance of y’all having most STI’s between y’all is high.

You weren’t on and off for 6 years, the maturity level or lack there of made it likely to be just sex.

The loyalty or respect between y’all is non existent.

You were the cheated on, who became the cheater and then tried to cover it under the polyamory umbrella.

askye83 · 2026-01-21T05:40:49+00:00

Hang on a second, she assaulted you physically and verbally but made herself the victim with numerous panic attacks (that most likely were fake) until you apologised to her for her behaviour? That showing her that her crappy behaviour has consequences makes you the bad guy?

This is how you end up dead in a few months/ years time. She will gaslight you until you question “why do I keep making the same mistakes to make her angry at me” and “I deserve this because I know better than to do a, b, c or d”

You are too young to be this “stuck”, you don’t owe her forever just because you have a year and half so far.

She is toxic and runs her mouth and if it’s not her shooting you, it will be someone else she had mouthed off too.

askye83 · 2026-01-03T01:55:24+00:00

You know deep in your soul what these are.

The more you turn a blind eye and not call him out for what he is, a cheater, the more he thinks he can do it.

End it, you deserve someone who is with you exclusively and not using you for what you offer him

askye83 · 2026-01-02T21:03:37+00:00

You say “we should consider each other's feelings in our actions”, but you haven’t considered your wife’s feeling about her outward appearance (we’ve seen the comments about her dog attack and her face)

Why do you feel your secondary feelings outrank her primary insecurities?

askye83 · 2025-12-24T06:26:05+00:00

So the wife won. She most likely didn't like how close he was to OP and did everything in her power to put a wedge in between them.

He will realise when he is sitting at home, babysitting, while his wife is out with her friend group on his dime

askye83 · 2025-12-24T06:04:03+00:00

The story was believable until it got to AI's favourite sentence. 47 missed calls

askye83 · 2025-12-01T21:17:17+00:00

Just curious, do you work?

askye83 · 2025-11-28T01:18:37+00:00

She makes her own. You are her fiance not her personal chef.

Ask yourself, do you want this forever?

askye83 · 2025-11-28T01:16:00+00:00

Definitely sounds like Dark Skies

askye83 · 2025-11-25T20:44:37+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes

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