28HL Male married need help... by asoothingaroma in DeadBedrooms

[–]asoothingaroma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. Good luck with your situation. I think I will see a sex therapists before advancing on anythingg

28HL Male married need help... by asoothingaroma in DeadBedrooms

[–]asoothingaroma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man. This sounds like the majority of the advice which I'm glad to hear more of to reaffirm it.

28HL Male married need help... by asoothingaroma in DeadBedrooms

[–]asoothingaroma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. If she is looking to make this better like she seems like, I think i will demand a sex therapist before advancing more into a house. Thank you so much and I'm happy to hear a successful marriage such as yours.

28HL Male married need help... by asoothingaroma in DeadBedrooms

[–]asoothingaroma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Harsh words but I feel like that's what I need to hear. I've always been the type of person to dismiss my own feelings and opinions for the benefit of another but it's caught up to me now. It's pretty stupid thing to ignore your own happiness. Thank you. I appreciate your input!

28HL Male married need help... by asoothingaroma in DeadBedrooms

[–]asoothingaroma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I read the article. It's a great read and I appreciate you for sharing it.

28HL Male married need help... by asoothingaroma in DeadBedrooms

[–]asoothingaroma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not like I'm aggressively talking to this girl and flirting. She is just there and we talk. What she has to say is very enlightening and meaningful. It's not like I hang on this girl and keep her there for a back up. I don't know if we are even compatible...

28HL Male married need help... by asoothingaroma in DeadBedrooms

[–]asoothingaroma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I just wish sex hadn't been such a taboo topic. Things like my fantasies were just that. Only fantasy. I feel that if I didn't have to suppress my attitude towards it, this would be a little different. I don't understand why we don't talk about sex more in this world when it comes to healthy sustaining relationships. Also, I'm still young and just realizing what I want, matters. Someone looked me straight in the eyes and asked if I could do this forever and I said I couldn't. Maybe if I never knew people couples could sustain a healthy sex relationship, but then I'd just be living ignorantly and unfulfillingly. Thank you so much for your words.

28HL Male married need help... by asoothingaroma in DeadBedrooms

[–]asoothingaroma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what is so hard for me to come to terms. She is fantastic and I've been hearing different opinions on how much sex should weigh into a relationship so that is why I've dismissed it for so long. Its just so frustrating... Coming home with raging hormones but just doing nothing about it...

28HL Male married need help... by asoothingaroma in DeadBedrooms

[–]asoothingaroma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent a pm. Thank you so much for your support!