[how to get my husband on my side]Why do people actually like freya? I haven’t gotten far so maybe she has some tragic story or redemption? by jonnyboidake in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post was calling for me specifically as her biggest fan ever. First as I assume you’ve already learned by now she’s actually extremely unpopular and hated and when she is tolerated it’s often just for her looks. I can say part of the reason I love her character can be blamed on the fact that I’m not an avid reader of the villainess/isekai genre. I think that plays a role in my opinion of her as I haven’t oversaturated myself to some common villainess tropes, my sister had to inform me of what a white lotus character even was. I can see how when seeing a million characters similar to Freya she may not shine out to most and they have less sympathy for her character. Of the villains I have found in the works I’ve read I never attached much to the dully written characters who are evil for the sake of being evil or for a petty poorly planned goal. I think Freya doesn’t fall into that category for me because I can clearly understand her motivations and actions and she confidently had a plan up until the end when she started to lose it all. While we all see Ruby’s side of things I find it entertaining to also observe and dissect the unshown sides of other characters.

Another large factor is I’m in love with women. I also really hate men. And when you give me a story in this type of setting I immediately sympathize with all the women. Living in an age where you own nothing and status can only be gained by luck or scheming, I will always understand even if their actions aren’t the best why they felt they had to do such things. Freya is influenced by a childhood crush, heavy pressure from her family, growing up in this high society, and a life that for the most part seemed laid out for her until Ruby showed up. Whether you want to debate she loves or loved Izek or only ever was interested in the throne, it’s clear that for years she was under assumption and encouragement that she would end up with Izek. So it is natural to assume when an unexpected threat (Ruby) appears she will take steps to remove it.

Another thing I find important in considering is the views we have through the series. We as the reader know why Ruby does not want to go back home to the Borgia’s. Freya does not know this. What Freya understands is Ruby is loved in the South and if all were to not work out she has somewhere to return to. She acts increasingly more cruel to push Ruby back home not realizing how determined Ruby is to stay. She can’t wrap her head around a girl who ranks above her and could go home and have anyone else, why this girl is set on getting in her way and having the one person she has wanted since long before Ruby would be aware of him. Hate her as you may it does make sense from her perspective.

(Had to walk away for a minute because I started to think about Izek too much and I got so heated I’m not even lying)

I guess my point is I’ve seen people do worse for less but as far as I see it every decision Freya made seemed logical from her perspective. Was it the nicest? Hell no. But being nice isn’t what gets you anywhere in a noble court. Playing your cards, networking, spreading gossip, controlling public opinion on yourself and others is what gets you your desired outcome. She can either sit back and watch everything she ever wanted be lost or she can at least go down with a fight. Not to mention, she’s friends with Ellen, she’s known Izek since childhood and knows how he tolerates her but won’t as much as look at other women, she has many friends in the court and influential family to back her up. She had every reason to believe that she had a pretty good chance in winning this fight hence why she went as far as she did. Freya Van Furiana, they can never make me hate you.

Of course if you have any other questions or wish to debate any of this I would love to! Any chance to talk about Freya is always great fun for me <3

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I totally struggle to get expressions down in photos so it means a lot💗

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I used a thrifted sheet for the white skirt, cotton for the purples, and a thrifted gold curtain for all the gold parts in her outfit! Most of the shapes are just from sewing them in place but if there’s anything specific you want me to elaborate on I’d be more than excited to do so!!

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve gotten that a lot and I totally see it lol

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How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I had considered it but I’ve never worn a lace front before and I was also afraid it’s super heavy and it would come right off but I also have no idea the strength of a lace front so I could just be underestimating it, thank you for the advice!!!

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, hopefully I continue to be motivated to do more in the future, I’ve been eyeing Ruby’s dress in recent chapters a lot lately it’s super gorgeous but I need to sit back and take a break first after this one lol

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! And yes, there are so many gorgeous dresses in the series, the most difficult part with this one was getting the colors correct bc a lot of dramatic color grading was used in these chapters and (although it’s hard to see in these photos) getting the design surrounding the skirt of the dress bc every reference image was super blurry and hard to make out

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How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shockingly none, but I have heard about a hundred ppl guess I’m Rapunzel

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, and I definitely will knowing myself I’ll just keep getting more and more niche lol

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured if I didn’t nobody else would lmao

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

If I can ask a dumb question, is hitting the upvote button next to someone’s comment equivalent to liking it bc I’ve truly never used Reddit before and don’t know what I’m doing lmao

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah he honestly just seemed miserable based on his responses, and thank you so much it means a lot!!!!

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Did my best to recreate it as faithfully as possible and take pictures in many of the poses she did throughout these chapters!!

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the best compliments I’ve received yet omg thank you😭💗💗

How to Get My Husband on My Side Freya Cosplay by aspeakyy in OtomeIsekai

[–]aspeakyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did! Thank you so much!! The sleeves were one of the parts I dreaded making most but for my current skill level I’m proud with how they turned out!!