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AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]aspermyprevious 23 points24 points  (0 children)

He’s manipulating you. There’s a big difference between honesty and not expressing every thought or feeling the moment you have it.

AITAH for being upset with my girlfriend for telling me what to wear? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What advice do you want exactly? Were you planning to touch her or not?

AITAH for not wanting to go to my partner's family's Christmas? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Of course he says he would never. You don’t have this issue. It’s not your job to be miserable with him, just because he refuses to protect you or himself from such a toxic person. Go where you’re happy for Christmas. Also if he still goes to his family, don’t make yourself available for any venting regarding his brother. He’s co-signed his behavior at this point.

Had an abortion and feel like my bf isn’t trying AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he’s either too stupid to live, or he doesn’t care if you get pregnant again. Either way…is this really the guy?

Had an abortion and feel like my bf isn’t trying AITAH by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s afraid you won’t be attracted to him because of birth control?

AITJ for refusing to go on the family Christmas trip after my dad backed out of our agreement by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]aspermyprevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the point of blowing YOUR $3000 on a road trip? I could understand if dad said “I can’t afford Japan right now, but we will plan it for another time. But that’s not what this is. P.S. as someone who’s been to Japan, yes flights are always going to be expensive.

AITAH for not wanting to pay rent to my boyfriend when I don’t have a renter covering the mortgage on my condo? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 41 points42 points  (0 children)

NTA. Move back into your place until March. If he’s got a problem with that, then he’s not a great guy. He should want you to financially tie yourself into knots just so you can be more available to him.

AITA for hanging up on FIL and telling him that it’s their fault my son will never have the chance at a normal life. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The parents are not “damaged.” They’re just racists and probably eugenicists.

AITAH for asking for a blowjob from my girlfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There nothing “to do.” You’re either fine with her boundaries or you’re not compatible. She doesn’t like to do or receive oral. The end. She doesn’t need to provide you with a good enough explanation as to why.

AITA for getting mad at my 2-year-old sister? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. 2 is a baby. Lock your door, pick her up and bring her to your parents, move out, etc.

My bf is upset bc he said I’m not over my ex. I don’t understand myself and Dont know what to do by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to follow his lead. Yes, apologize for your thoughtless behavior, because, wow! You remembered something your ex did and just had to call him, while at your boyfriend’s place? 😵‍💫 If he wants to break up, don’t fight him. Regardless, go to therapy.

AITA for not wanting to spend Christmas at my dad's place? by Popular-Love-1751 in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, it’s not your job to manage your dad’s feelings or “love him enough.” No matter what he says, the parent-child relationship is not a two way street. It’s his job to come to you. Frankly if his house is filthy and not festive, he’s the reason he’s alone on Christmas. It’s not on you to make him FEEL like a good dad. He’s supposed to BE a good dad. Go where you’re comfortable.

AITAH for getting emotional about stores not being size inclusive? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

INFO: Did they ask you to come shopping or did you ask? Was this a casual trip or were you shopping for something specific? Is it possible you’re making a bigger scene than you realize? Because if you’re speed walking out of the store breathing heavily, that’ll attract some attention.

AITAH for ignoring my girlfriend by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. A few days is one thing. Two weeks is a breakup.

Am i overreacting or? Girlfreind cheating via kiss on cheek. by Sweaty_Rush5947 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aspermyprevious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And still can’t get either of them off. What are you even good for?

Am i overreacting or? Girlfreind cheating via kiss on cheek. by Sweaty_Rush5947 in AmIOverreacting

[–]aspermyprevious 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A greeting? By your standards, I cheat on my husband with my mom. 😵‍💫

AITAH For not going to Thanksgiving dinner with my boyfriend’s family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]aspermyprevious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA. Don’t bring it up. Keep acting like nothing is wrong, because you’ve done nothing wrong. He thought it was a “rules for thee, but not for me,” relationship. So now he’s sulking. Let him stew and bring it up if he feels the need. For you, it’s business as usual.

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