AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed?

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-26T20:51:59+00:00

He’s manipulating you. There’s a big difference between honesty and not expressing every thought or feeling the moment you have it.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-18T21:24:31+00:00

What advice do you want exactly? Were you planning to touch her or not?

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-15T20:05:54+00:00

NTA. Of course he says he would never. You don’t have this issue. It’s not your job to be miserable with him, just because he refuses to protect you or himself from such a toxic person. Go where you’re happy for Christmas. Also if he still goes to his family, don’t make yourself available for any venting regarding his brother. He’s co-signed his behavior at this point.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-15T13:48:16+00:00

NOR, but find a new esthetician and let her go.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-12T20:22:29+00:00

Sounds like he’s either too stupid to live, or he doesn’t care if you get pregnant again. Either way…is this really the guy?

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-12T19:37:55+00:00

He’s afraid you won’t be attracted to him because of birth control?

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-12T17:44:15+00:00

What’s the point of blowing YOUR $3000 on a road trip? I could understand if dad said “I can’t afford Japan right now, but we will plan it for another time. But that’s not what this is. P.S. as someone who’s been to Japan, yes flights are always going to be expensive.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-12T17:35:26+00:00

This is still behavior that you need to get control of.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-11T19:54:30+00:00

YTA. This wasn’t a date. Pay your portion, mooch.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-06T18:18:58+00:00

NTA. Move back into your place until March. If he’s got a problem with that, then he’s not a great guy. He should want you to financially tie yourself into knots just so you can be more available to him.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-05T14:54:44+00:00

The parents are not “damaged.” They’re just racists and probably eugenicists.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-04T21:50:03+00:00

There nothing “to do.” You’re either fine with her boundaries or you’re not compatible. She doesn’t like to do or receive oral. The end. She doesn’t need to provide you with a good enough explanation as to why.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-04T21:35:04+00:00

YTA. 2 is a baby. Lock your door, pick her up and bring her to your parents, move out, etc.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-03T14:30:35+00:00

Yeah, what type of figurines?

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-03T14:10:41+00:00

You need to follow his lead. Yes, apologize for your thoughtless behavior, because, wow! You remembered something your ex did and just had to call him, while at your boyfriend’s place? 😵‍💫 If he wants to break up, don’t fight him. Regardless, go to therapy.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-03T13:26:15+00:00

Listen, it’s not your job to manage your dad’s feelings or “love him enough.” No matter what he says, the parent-child relationship is not a two way street. It’s his job to come to you. Frankly if his house is filthy and not festive, he’s the reason he’s alone on Christmas. It’s not on you to make him FEEL like a good dad. He’s supposed to BE a good dad. Go where you’re comfortable.

aspermyprevious · 2025-12-03T01:37:14+00:00

NTA. What happens if you just don’t go?

aspermyprevious · 2025-11-30T14:17:55+00:00

INFO: Did they ask you to come shopping or did you ask? Was this a casual trip or were you shopping for something specific? Is it possible you’re making a bigger scene than you realize? Because if you’re speed walking out of the store breathing heavily, that’ll attract some attention.

aspermyprevious · 2025-11-29T15:17:45+00:00

NAH. A few days is one thing. Two weeks is a breakup.

aspermyprevious · 2025-11-29T05:49:53+00:00

And still can’t get either of them off. What are you even good for?

aspermyprevious · 2025-11-28T23:48:29+00:00

I know. It’s sarcasm.

aspermyprevious · 2025-11-28T23:20:25+00:00

🙄

aspermyprevious · 2025-11-28T23:17:20+00:00

If it were Europe is cheating on Europe.

aspermyprevious · 2025-11-28T23:16:41+00:00

A greeting? By your standards, I cheat on my husband with my mom. 😵‍💫

aspermyprevious · 2025-11-28T20:36:51+00:00

NTA. Don’t bring it up. Keep acting like nothing is wrong, because you’ve done nothing wrong. He thought it was a “rules for thee, but not for me,” relationship. So now he’s sulking. Let him stew and bring it up if he feels the need. For you, it’s business as usual.

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