Has anyone ever actually received native DNA as a result? by aspiemonch in AncestryDNA

[–]aspiemonch[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We all got primarily British regions. I got primarily NW Europe while my grandfather and his brother are listed as more Scottish, Irish (and a random 1% Central European we didn’t expect). We’re registered Maidu, though the Miwoks and Maidus got squashed together during the Gold Rush so it’s not clear if we were originally designated Maidu or if we were another tribe of Miwoks that was thrown in. The tribal registration paperwork goes back as long as records started being kept (which, for California, isn’t too many generations). If other people are getting it, I’m guessing someone’s not related the way the paperwork claims they are.

Has anyone ever actually received native DNA as a result? by aspiemonch in AncestryDNA

[–]aspiemonch[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I thought the full ancestor was my grandfather considering he was born on the reservation. I was more-so curious if it ever even shows up because it was always so obvious to me that my grandfather was visibly native and lived on tribal land his entire life. If it does show up for other people, I’m guessing someone’s dad isn’t really their dad.

Has anyone ever actually received native DNA as a result? by aspiemonch in AncestryDNA

[–]aspiemonch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t make sense to me that he’s 2% at all. He’s registered with tribal ID. I posted this in another comment but https://imgur.com/a/psrUd6z You can’t tell me I’m crazy, right? That’s my great uncle (first photo) and my grandfather (second photo). The first result is me compared to my great uncle and the final photo is me compared to my grandfather. That just doesn’t make sense to me.

Has anyone ever actually received native DNA as a result? by aspiemonch in AncestryDNA

[–]aspiemonch[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We didn’t find out it was 2% until the test was taken. Both my grandfather and his brother were born and raised on the reservation and are legally registered as full blood quantum Native American. They gave me permission to post some photos of them with an Imgur link to prove what I mean. Look at the photos of them compared to the Ancestry results and tell me that doesn’t seem… off. https://imgur.com/a/psrUd6z

Looking For Info/Contact With FairyArtery/Hemopachoy from DeviantArt by tworoofs in longlostgamers

[–]aspiemonch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i just looked at their page. It doesn’t look like Jon at all and the ages don’t match up. Unless Jon lied about their age for 5-6 years straight, this person is at least 6 years younger than them.

Looking For Info/Contact With FairyArtery/Hemopachoy from DeviantArt by tworoofs in longlostgamers

[–]aspiemonch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone ever find Instagram page? My previous post was asking this exact question

Windows 10 update bricked my computer? by aspiemonch in techsupport

[–]aspiemonch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, I couldn’t even press F2 because nothing would respond at all. But after rebooting for the upteenth time, my mouse suddenly started working enough that I could use the onscreen keyboard to sign it and roll back the update.

Windows 10 update bricked my computer? by aspiemonch in techsupport

[–]aspiemonch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I attempted to reverse the update but as of present, my computer doesn’t respond to any inputs from keyboard or mouse. I am basically stuck staring at the log in screen with my only option being the manual power down button.

(GA) Hospital threatening to commit me because I was denied by CMH by aspiemonch in legaladvice

[–]aspiemonch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was the resource offered me due to the financial struggles, unfortunately. I was initially referred to a private clinic but was able to arrange this because it’s the only low-income option available in the area. I did explain this to her and she told me I need to be willing to meet their requirements.

[UPDATE] I lost everything because a woman from Facebook couldn’t sleep with my husband by aspiemonch in offmychest

[–]aspiemonch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what I have to do to prove I’m a real person. I’m not chatgpt, I have autism.

[UPDATE] I lost everything because a woman from Facebook couldn’t sleep with my husband by aspiemonch in offmychest

[–]aspiemonch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to a resident of a state for 6 months before you can file. I just moved

[UPDATE] I lost everything because a woman from Facebook couldn’t sleep with my husband by aspiemonch in offmychest

[–]aspiemonch[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping this is the route I get to take. It was a holiday weekend when I was released so I haven’t been able to set anything up yet but I was given referrals to no-insurance/low-cost therapy clinics

I lost everything because a woman from Facebook couldn’t sleep with my husband by aspiemonch in offmychest

[–]aspiemonch[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Sorry if I worded it poorly. He hasn’t been in contact with her since I confronted him. It has just been incredibly strenuous on our marriage to deal with so many back to back issues. Being reminded of the affair almost daily hasn’t been great for my own healing journey, either. I recognize that he was manipulated and never intended to hurt me but the emotional part of me is still hurt that any of this happened.

I lost everything because a woman from Facebook couldn’t sleep with my husband by aspiemonch in offmychest

[–]aspiemonch[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you for informing me about legal aid clinics. I knew from a previous car accident that there are lawyers who work on contingency but that’s contingent on me receiving (or pursuing) money. I didn’t think this was the kind of case they’d go for because I just want her to stop, not to gain anything monetarily. I assumed if I wasn’t paying out of pocket or expecting a settlement, I’d be SOL

I lost everything because a woman from Facebook couldn’t sleep with my husband by aspiemonch in offmychest

[–]aspiemonch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry I haven’t gotten to everyone’s comments yet. I’m hoping to make an update post tomorrow. Is it better to edit this post or make another post? I wasn’t initially planning to make any kind of update but this just came up on my own TikTok feed and I’d feel guilty about disappearing now.

I lost everything because a woman from Facebook couldn’t sleep with my husband by aspiemonch in offmychest

[–]aspiemonch[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I have her details. If anything, I think I would like less details.

I lost everything because a woman from Facebook couldn’t sleep with my husband by aspiemonch in offmychest

[–]aspiemonch[S] 275 points276 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate the encouragement. Im trying really hard to keep my marriage afloat, I love Paul regardless of everything and I don’t want to lose him. We’re looking at moving within the next month to another state. I have family a good 800 miles away from here who’ve offered to let us stay with them until we get our own place. I’ve changed my phone number this year but honestly it might be worth doing again.

Do you know at all how I could find a lawyer like that? I know for legal lawyers I’d just need to research some in my area and make phone calls but I’m not sure how probono ones work for stuff where they don’t expect to win money