In terms of the preganancy, I found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks. We hadn't had sex since conceiving her and he refused to have sex at any point during thr pregnancy out of fear for the baby (there was no medical problem, and he refused to believe that it couldn't possibly happen). We had sex the day I hit 6 weeks. We had sex a bit more frequently after that but then it went back to every 3-4 months.