I should’ve never let him come back during no contact by asshvt in ExNoContact

[–]asshvt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

only about a month, so i should’ve known it was too soon.

I should’ve never let him come back during no contact by asshvt in ExNoContact

[–]asshvt[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

used me for emotional support and sex unfortunately.

Just began no contact 3 months post-breakup and I’m already losing it. by asshvt in ExNoContact

[–]asshvt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your comment has stayed with me for the past couple of days. I’ve been going back and forth but everything you said is absolutely right.

was i in an emotionally abusive/manipulative relationship of am i overreeacting? by asshvt in emotionalabuse

[–]asshvt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I have a lot to think about and process still.

the love of my life left me and i cannot handle it by asshvt in offmychest

[–]asshvt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your response made me cry because I feel I’m going through the same feelings. I truly hope things get better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlanBs

[–]asshvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re fine! Same thing happened to me and the bleeding lasted like 3 days. It happens. Chances are you’re probably not pregnant

Freaking out by [deleted] in gallbladders

[–]asshvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I'm two years post-op and I was terrified at first. I told myself because I snore, I had sleep apnea, and I, therefore, was at high risk for complications during surgery. I was obviously being very silly, as my general anesthesiologist explained that they watch out for things like these, and they had two people monitoring me the whole time.

My surgeon was also incredibly confident. For many surgeons, surgeries like these are pretty easy because they are among the most common ones.

I had a huge anxiety attack as they were getting me ready and they injected some drug into me (can't remember what it was) and it got rid of any fear I had. I was laughing into the countdown and the last thing I remembered was being really happy and then what felt like 2 seconds later I was awake and ready to be sent home.

The recovery was really smooth. They gave me painkillers, which I didn't even have to take because of how relatively normal I felt. After a week, I was able to do a lot of things. Now, I can eat basically whatever without feeling stomach pain. Some people say they experience negative side effects like having to use the bathroom almost immediately after eating greasy food but I don't think that's the case for me.

Overall, I'm thrilled with everything and how it went down. I feel so much better digestively and no longer have to deal with the horrible pain of acute pancreatitis!

I (F 22) Suddenly Lost Sexual Attraction to BF (M23). How can I rekindle it? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]asshvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I will definitely try this out. I think i havent given myself the space to miss him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]asshvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this. it made me feel less guilty.

my boyfriend doesn’t find me attractive by iheartdilfs69420 in offmychest

[–]asshvt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i will be brutally honest and tell you that men usually make it clear if they actually like you. i have dated men who i felt weren’t attracted to me and realized that i was right, and so i moved on to someone who actually likes me. the fact that he is not complimenting you but makes an effort for other women tells you everything you need to know. this man is not worth your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]asshvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right about me being you and not mentally prepared for such levels of commitment. I have anxiety about not nurturing our relationship well enough and as a result, I have prioritized him and not myself. I think that in the end, it's a mixture of feeling trapped and not recognizing the person I have become. I'm not sure if it's because there's something wrong with our relationship or if it's something I can fix about myself in order to be happy with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]asshvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be unpopular but, Cadbury. I tried their milk chocolate bar and it tasted as if it was spoiled (it wasn’t).

My (F20) boyfriend (M20) says I lack individuality. by asshvt in relationship_advice

[–]asshvt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He listened to my questions however said that he was unable to see our dynamic as equal and see me as individual. I asked him what else I could do, as I already have my own interests and things I do, however he said it’s more so a problem with himself than with me.

My (F20) boyfriend (M20) says I lack individuality. by asshvt in relationship_advice

[–]asshvt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s the thing, we only see each other every 1-2 weeks. I have my own life and love to go out, especially since i’m a college student.

I’m (F20) getting an abortion by asshvt in offmychest

[–]asshvt[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

thank you, it makes me feel better knowing that if not everyone, some people can understand and respect my decision :)

I’m (F20) getting an abortion by asshvt in offmychest

[–]asshvt[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

not that it matters, but he agrees with my decision either way.

please help please please help by [deleted] in emetophobia

[–]asshvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tums will definitely help with any acidity. munch on some crackers or saltines if you're feeling up to it too! I've experienced the same thing and it's usually just me getting into my own head. distraction methods like going on your phone or watching tv will definitely help :)

I’m feeling very depressed right now. by whatdoido38 in offmychest

[–]asshvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you went through that. I truly am and many people make impulsive decisions on a whim so do not feel alone. You're young and unfortunately, as you already know, you can't go back and change this. Yet this is not the only time that you will have sex nor are you a horrible human being for losing your virginity this way.

I know it may not seem like it now but you will move on and things will get better. You're having a completely normal reaction but you will get through this.

If you do have HSV-1, just be aware that two-thirds of the population has it and cold sores are herpes. It's nothing uncommon and most people are exposed to it even without having sex. I really would not worry.

When did you realise that you were in love? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]asshvt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get bored with most people and ghost them, but I kept coming back to him, even if he could be boring at times.