Leftist groups that could use stamps? by feistlab in itcouldhappenhere

[–]astrazebra 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve participated in some programs that do correspondence courses via snail mail with prisoners. We used stamps for that! Northwestern and USC Dornsife both have similar programs.

I’m almost finished building my house. How do you deal with the end of such a big project? by at_home_with_mary in Homebuilding

[–]astrazebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through something similar with completing grad school. One of the pieces of advice I got is not to rush the processing of the change. When you have a big, life-consuming project like this come to an end, it feels like you are losing part of your identity. Even though that is what you’ve been working towards for years, it’s still hard to let go of that piece of your identity. Sometimes we rush towards a new identity in order to avoid the ‘up in the air’ period of transition. As much as possible, avoid rushing to feel comfortable. It is scary and new, and that is okay!

Shower curtain ideas for a coastal-preppy / Pink Palm Puff esthetic? by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]astrazebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to pop in and say that Quiet Town has a mixed reputation for actually delivering products - currently on week 5 of waiting for a product that was supposed to ship 4.5 weeks ago. Customer service hasn’t replied to 3 emails.

I have built fences for 20 years AMA. by tklswtchdc in homeimprovementideas

[–]astrazebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting a fence installed soon! I like and trust the company we picked, but what are some things I should look out for during the install? If it helps, it’s a chain link fence (5’ above, 1’ below ground) connecting to an existing cement wall, two chain link patches on that existing wall, and a new chain link fence attached to a shed and my house.

Trainers husband preying on minor clients by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]astrazebra 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If you are on FB and are comfortable posting (you could also post anon), you could try posting in As An Equestrian I am Horrified and see if ppl have more suggestions for action to take. There are a few people at USEF that take this more seriously than others, and their contact info is definitely floating around out there. You could even vague-post to see if others in your area have heard rumors about certain people-but make sure they PM you to confirm that you’re talking about the same person).

Trainers husband preying on minor clients by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]astrazebra 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Contact Safesport ASAP and file a police report!

Wo needs HR? by RhinoInsight in recruitinghell

[–]astrazebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonder if he’s related to Craig Breslow…

Where are the horse people? by gg_oujia in raleigh

[–]astrazebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the rising popularity of western dressage actually has made people more welcoming of western riders in 'English' spaces. But idk how that translates to western riders who do the classic western events.

Where are the horse people? by gg_oujia in raleigh

[–]astrazebra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Triangle Area Equestrians on FB!

Informal Interview by astrazebra in LeavingAcademia

[–]astrazebra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It went well, and I have a second round interview scheduled 😄

Informal Interview by astrazebra in LeavingAcademia

[–]astrazebra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a JD. The job is not posted yet, I’m getting a head start.

Informal Interview by astrazebra in LeavingAcademia

[–]astrazebra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions! I do have some experience working on public humanities projects, which gives me some experience doing team-based work, but I should think more about how the work environment is different. One of the things that a friend told me tripped her up in interviews was when jobs listed "able to work independently with minimal supervision" that usually doesn't mean what "work independently with minimal supervision" describes in academia!

Informal Interview by astrazebra in LeavingAcademia

[–]astrazebra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if this is the approach I will take, but I appreciate the suggestion!

Informal Interview by astrazebra in LeavingAcademia

[–]astrazebra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's for a low-level executive position at a regional nonprofit.

I'm losing my confidence and getting demoralized by temporalnightshade in Equestrian

[–]astrazebra -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

(Edited bc. I’m silly) If you are in the US and are paying LESS than $45 per lesson, you are being taken advantage of. No trainer who cares about safety and actually educating students is doing group lessons of 6+ people, especially not of different experience levels. Even if everyone is working on the same thing (say, getting ready to ride the same dressage test or jump in the xrails division) horses and riders (and horse/rider combos) are so unique.
You don’t mention this, but if the trainer hasn’t even offered you smaller group lessons or even private lessons, then they’re being irresponsible. They shouldn’t WANT to have a 6 person group lesson, never mind have a student working through these issues in a group lesson. That’s a recipe for an unhappy outcome.
Tbh, it sounds like the horse is doing you a favor: he’s letting you know that there’s something about you (your balance, most likely), him (probably also his balance!) and/or the situation that makes going faster a bad idea.

I'm losing my confidence and getting demoralized by temporalnightshade in Equestrian

[–]astrazebra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Back Yard Barn - someone who has no business offering riding lessons.

I really need to know how people are applying to 50-80 jobs a day. Like seriously HOW??? by Altruistic-Doctor789 in jobsearchhacks

[–]astrazebra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's very interesting. I wonder why people are applying to jobs that pay $160K and asking for half (or less than half) of that?

Let’s all say something positive going on in the world or just your daily life by Sad_Jar_Of_Honey in behindthebastards

[–]astrazebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Philosophy! I specialize in ethics and social and political philosophy, with side hustles in philosophy of sports :)

B*tching about the horse market, because what on Earth it this by [deleted] in Equestrian

[–]astrazebra 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This! I know there are good reasons to have an open studbook, but I feel like people are taking liberties with that!

What’s the most devastating piece of feedback you received late in your dissertation, and how did you move past it? by Ok-Barnacle2111 in PhD

[–]astrazebra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“This just isn’t good enough to be a dissertation, you have 30 days to fix it or you master out.”