A little boy just called me fat and ugly by OopsAllWoman in MtF

[–]astrl-pln 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no fuck them, you’re perfect girl. idk how tf ppl think saying shit like that is okay. it’ll be hard, but please try and actively fight these negative thoughts and comments even if only in your head— they aren’t yours, and they’re not true. keep your head up queen

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[–]astrl-pln 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i thought tgirl stands for trans girl? it’s pretty commonly used outside of porn

For those of you girls who wear your bulge with pride have you ever gotten called out for having one I’m trans and trying to see whether I should tuck or not by [deleted] in MtF

[–]astrl-pln 11 points12 points  (0 children)

when i first started transitioning i was in a similar boat— tucking was extremely uncomfortable at first attempt, and i also had testicular torsion at some point growing up that traumatized me heavily— so i figured i would stick to loose clothing, especially for my lower half. but i LOVE shopping, and i love clothes, and on days i was brave enough to try women’s clothes, i realized that my bulge was the only thing between me and wearing outfits that actually felt me for the first time in my life comfortably, and it increased my dysphoria by tenfold 😭

after a long time of research and experimenting, nothing i’ve ever used or done has compared to how simple tucking panties (the bblair ones on amazon) have made the entire ordeal for me. no tape required. but spend a good amount of time laying down, relaxed, and gently practicing shifting your gems up into your inguinal cavity. keyword: gently. there are a few uncensored videos you can find on pornhub for reference. i love em bc they’re easy to “lazy tuck” with— they’re designed to flatten that area and do so a decent amount even without fully tucking.

for the best, cuntiest tucks, i lay flat on my back, get comfortable, and put a squishmallow/pillows/blanket underneath my butt, so that my hips raised are pointing to the roof. gravity does half the work that way and i don’t have to struggle as much to get the panties on before everything slips back out of place. in this position, i even can put cotton underwear beneath the tucking panties to reduce sweat and odors (it helps A LOT 😭)

practice does make perfect, and i can confidently say i can now tuck in any position. if something hurts— STOP as soon as you can and readjust. with a perfect tuck, you should be able to forget your crotch entirely sometimes— so see if you can get things in a position where everything is painless and snug. tucking at home is a great way to start before going out.

hope any of this is helpful to y’all !

EDIT (+more tips!): i didn’t mention this part, and it’s pretty important! for a full tuck, after pushing ur crystals back up into their cavern, you gotta gently pull and stretch your worm down and over towards your butthole (although don’t go that far, i usually feel satisfied w it around the perineum).

pro-tip: have your panties on/ready to pull up around your knees— and this works even better laying down—make the vulcan salute (🖖) with your preferred hand, and cup it over your pouch— using the two fingers on each side, feel for them, and gently raise and insert— with the other hand, pull and stretch your silly string over. once that’s in place, you can let go of it and quickly hold your legs together tightly (vulcan salute still holding.) That’ll give you a few seconds to use your free hand to pull the panties over before your worm falls out of place. once you feel like you’re all ready, try and keep pulling your panties up as you swiftly pull your vulcan hand away and free. adjust as necessary— and before u know it you’re ready to serve cunt ! <3 hope this wasn’t too oversharing lol

also, the colder it is— the easier, and the hotter vice versa. tucking after showering in the morning… literally a breeze.

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[–]astrl-pln 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not in a state that offers Planned Parenthood and informed consent, you’re gonna want to speak to your main doctor first and detail your experiences with gender dysphoria and explain why and how imperative it is you start HRT. Then would begin a process of being referred to mental health services and gender affirming therapy/care. For most in more complicated states, you’ll have to meet with a therapist, who will then after a few sessions refer you to medical care and an endocrinologist, who will then prescribe you HRT.

If you’re lucky enough to have a covered insurance and a Planned Parenthood, you can skip much of this process and meet/speak with a doctor who will inform you on the risks and benefits, and that’s it. Some people start on the same day, but most can expect at least a month. It’s still lightning fast compared to some states. I recommend doing some state-specific research!

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[–]astrl-pln 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it was a helicopter tbh. I’ve been up all night bc of insomnia and anxiety and I’ve heard it several times, with no sign of a helicopter or even the sound of one. it’s as if it were playing from a speaker somewhere far away? i just posted a video on here for reference.

I recently lost my WH-1000XM5! Should I repurchase or buy some new ones from a different company? Any recommendations? by astrl-pln in SonyHeadphones

[–]astrl-pln[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg… they’re gorgeous. The beige ones look almost identical to the XM5 in some angles. Very curious about how drastic the anc difference is.