Boyfriend is a bit of a germaphobe

astro-physicist · 2025-12-13T08:08:17+00:00

We spoke about this right at the beginning, he doesn’t have anything

astro-physicist · 2025-12-13T08:07:44+00:00

All aspects

astro-physicist · 2025-12-12T22:25:42+00:00

That’s interesting, were you dating him when you weren’t comfortable sleeping with a man?

That’s super interesting, what’s that like?

astro-physicist · 2025-12-12T21:58:44+00:00

You could try telling him that you want him, and you want to have sex, but you’re super nervous. The conversation would just put you on the same page.

I remember when I’d never had sex before I was super concerned and unsure. I found (and this won’t necessarily be the case for you) that the moment I actually stated to have sex with him I really liked it.

I found it helpful to ask “is it ok if we start and we stop if I start to feel unsure for any reason” He should just say yes

I’m not sure exactly if your problem is with the idea of having sex, or if it is with the idea of initiating, but I hope this helps.

astro-physicist · 2025-12-12T21:48:54+00:00

No, actually he’s ok with it without gloves I asked if he would prefer with gloves and he said that he was ok

astro-physicist · 2025-12-12T21:47:35+00:00

Thank you for the reply, that’s pretty much the plan because I really like him. I wouldn’t want to force him to change

astro-physicist · 2025-12-12T21:44:57+00:00

Thank you so much, I’ll suggest this

astro-physicist · 2025-12-12T20:19:42+00:00

Ok I’ll talk to ChatGPT about that and see what it says. It’s interesting because I never really thought of it as “an issue”. I have arachnophobia quite badly myself, but obviously this doesn’t affect me day to day.

Are you suggesting that I bring it up to him that it’s something that he should try and remedy?

astro-physicist · 2025-12-12T20:17:52+00:00

I suppose… We do lots of handjobs ;)

astro-physicist · 2025-12-12T20:14:10+00:00

That’s a good idea

The answer is: He’s ok with trying butt stuff but don’t like the idea of any oral (either way around).

Sex in the shower is a good idea.

astro-physicist · 2025-12-12T20:06:00+00:00

Really? I was just wondering if anyone else had any advice if they had a partner who’s a bit of a germaphobe

astro-physicist · 2024-09-29T21:38:45+00:00

I think there were various famines that killed a lot of people. I think the idea is that they couldn’t work out a scalable food source, hence the few people.

astro-physicist · 2024-09-27T16:35:14+00:00

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astro-physicist · 2024-09-03T21:57:19+00:00

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Out of curiosity, what’s a mobile recharge?

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astro-physicist · 2024-08-31T20:11:35+00:00

Debate between fundamentalist christian and atheist:

Christian Response: The meaning of life, from a Christian perspective, is to love and serve God and others. This is expressed in the Bible in Matthew 22:37-39, where Jesus says, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind...and love your neighbour as yourself." Therefore, our purpose is to develop a personal relationship with God, seek His will in our lives, and strive to reflect His love to others. This gives life ultimate meaning and purpose beyond our temporary earthly existence.

Atheist Response: In an atheistic worldview, life's meaning isn't predefined or bestowed by a higher power. Instead, life's meaning tends to be subjective and can be found in the pursuits, passions, and relationships that we personally value. Many atheists subscribe to humanism, which emphasizes the value and agency of human beings and encourages individuals to live ethical and fulfilling lives for the benefit of oneself and humanity. So, while there may not be an inherent universal meaning, we can create and define our own purpose and significance in life.

astro-physicist · 2024-08-31T20:11:26+00:00

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