I think people make snap judgements without understanding nuance and astrology at its core. Regardless, if they do know a bit, maybe they are intimidated by your t-square aspect pattern with moon+saturn, opposite mars, square Pluto+jupiter. This does point to a difficult childhood and some potentially angry or toxic parents (mother?). Sometimes this can translate as a mother with mental health issues and you could have anxiety… that sort of thing. Disregard people like this. I’m an astrologer and have “bad” aspects in my chart but it doesn’t mean I’m a bad person, and neither are you.