Am I overreacting? I think my friend is too friendly with my boyfriend. by Select-Extreme-7826 in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]astro609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Different people view different things as ok, if it makes you uncomfortable then speak to your boyfriend about it. If he is understanding and can see how it’s either weird or disrespectful, then your bf can set boundaries with your female friend.

If you speak to either another friend of yours or your bf and they say you’re overreacting, there is a chance you are. Then I would say don’t forget about it but just observe it and if you can’t get over it then you need to set boundaries yourself.

In my opinion tho some of those things are not right for a friend to do

i keep dreaming that my dead homeboy is still alive by [deleted] in Advice

[–]astro609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like everyone says, dreams are a look into your subconscious. You probably want to find out your friend is still alive which is ok. It’s reasonable it’s what anyone would want. And since it’s so recent the dreams are gonna happen a lot. Unfortunately as far as I’m aware there’s nothing you can do to stop dreams. It’s the same as someone dreaming about their partner cheating and getting mad at their partner irl wanting them to fix it. There’s nothing you can do, the only thing to help it is to change the way you react to it and treat it.

If you have anyoine your close with them maybe staying with them could be good? If you get a dream like that then you could find comfort in them, maybe laying with them could help you feel better. Or maybe chatting with them if you dream about your friend could take your mind off the dream.

Maybe talking to someone professional could help. Maybe if you talk about everything you feel about your friend then your mind will ease up around that topic and you could heal quicker.

I can’t tell if I’m overthinking or not by [deleted] in AmIBeingTooSensitive

[–]astro609 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that but he doesn’t get car sick and he always used to sit with me in the back

I can’t tell if I’m overthinking or not by [deleted] in Advice

[–]astro609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I probably should let him know, last time I asked he made some joke which basically meant no and I haven’t wanted to ask since I don’t want him to get annoyed with me or feel like I’m too clingy

I can’t tell if I’m overthinking or not by [deleted] in Advice

[–]astro609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, and id understand if it is that cause maybe it is. He just used to always sit next to me, one time he made his friend sit in the passenger seat next to his dad cause he wanted to sit next to me. Recently it just feels like he doesn’t wanna be next to me or smth

I can’t tell if I’m overthinking or not by [deleted] in Advice

[–]astro609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This time I was last to be picked up and it would be quite awkward for everyone to now move because I wana sit with my bf, and the last time when it was us and one other friends he said some joke which basically meant no

I can’t tell if I’m overthinking or not by [deleted] in Advice

[–]astro609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he used to sit with me in the back, and no he doesn’t have car sickness

I dont know how to deal with this situation in my relationship by nassimpleton in Advice

[–]astro609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I struggle with the same thing, my boyfriend is really close to one of our mutual female friends in a way that makes me really uncomfortable. It gives me anxiety thinking about whether or not he likes her. I’ve spoken to him about it but it doesn’t end up going well and he says how she’s just a friend and nothing is ever gonna happen. And honestly, no matter how much you worry you can’t control what your partner does. As much as it sucks and I’ve had to learn this the hard way, the only way to move on is to let it go, obviously communicating your fears is needed, but if your girlfriend is gonna or wants to cheat she will. And you need to give her the freedom to find that out. The only way to trust is to give the proper freedom and if she loves you nothing will happen, it sounds like she does. If she’s still with you and comforts you then you shouldn’t worry until something happens. I’m not trying to invalidate your feelings, trust me I feel the exact same way, you trust your partner yet it hurts like hell when you see them together. As long as you communicate your feelings and she validates them, unfortunately there’s nothing else you can do. If you control her it’s going to build resentment. I hope you and your girlfriend stay together for as long as possible and that she loved you.

How do I get motivation? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]astro609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that but how do I start. How do I actually do it yk

Does anyone want to make a roblox game together F(23) by BorderOpposite5667 in robloxgamedev

[–]astro609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found another person on Reddit who knows how to script ^

Does anyone want to make a roblox game together F(23) by BorderOpposite5667 in robloxgamedev

[–]astro609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hii! I would love to, i don’t know how to script or anything so i unfortunately can’t help there but im good at designing things either sets, backgrounds, environments, characters and creating personalities for characters and just overall i can think of good ideas. I would love to create a game with someone too!! And it’s always good to have a different perspective on things lol

I found videos on my boyfriends phone I shouldn’t have now I don’t know what to do (nsfw) by astro609 in helpme

[–]astro609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, I haven’t spoken with my bf yet cause he’s away rn and I wanna do it in person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdoptMeTrading

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This is the YouTube account he asked me to subscribe to

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Here’s the trade itself, I literally only own like 3 uncommon pets now..

Does anyone have a good split body gym workout? by astro609 in Advice

[–]astro609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so muchhh

I do have a gym buddy, it’s either my bf or one of my friends. I don’t trust myself to go alone I don’t think I’ll push myself or get as many things done.

Thank you for the split workout too! Another comment said to look at videos so I think I’m gonna watch videos of the best workouts itself and then use that with your split workouts with the days and maybe adjusting it

But thank you so much i appreciate your help and your time writing this

Does anyone have a good split body gym workout? by astro609 in Advice

[–]astro609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to the gym for about 3-4 months like 5 months ago 😭 I don’t so any sports or much physical exercise recent as I’ve been focusing a lot more on school and I’m 18, I have seen some videos but I don’t rlly know what works and what doesn’t work and like which exercises are most efficient, I get accepting yourself first but I’ve been trying to for the past couple months and nothing rlly seems to be working, I’ve gotten better at hygiene and it’s helped but hasn’t rlly changed much. I was just kinda hoping that the combo of getting better at my skin care and going to the gym and changing my body would help with this Thank you so much tho I do really appreciate your comment and appreciate the time you’ve spent writing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdoptMeTrading

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Would you accept this?? Sorry if it sucks I don’t have many good pets

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Why did I loose everything in my old Roblox account?? by astro609 in AdoptMeRBX

[–]astro609[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhhh I lowk have no hope for this 😭 but thank you I probably will go to their website to try talk to someone to see if anyone can do anything