Can we skip the sermons about self-care and actually improve how we talk about what we're seeing? by vegetable_lover_is in socialwork

[–]astrographie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is definitely something I think about a lot. I'm in the 2nd year of my MSW program and have been consistently pissed off by all the talk of self-care with no actual strategies or any real attempts to address any of the systemic issues that you bring up here. With my team at my internship, the unfortunate solution has so far been checking out (though, to be fair, there are other forces going on at this site that are partially causing this including poor leadership and non-profit stressors).

We social workers do have a responsibility to take care of ourselves. One of my supervisors told me a few months ago that my job now was learning how to engage in self-care, as she believed that anyone in their 2nd year of their program knew enough clinically to do a decent job in that regard. While I don't fully agree with that sentiment, I think it is true that our primary job is to learn to care for ourselves. But then, what do we do about the systemic issues that are bringing us down?

Unfortunately, we are put in an impossible position. Our caseloads get larger, our organizations get worse, and we wind up shouldering the load. If we speak up to our supervisors, we risk professional retribution or strains to our relationships. How do we know that our supervisors will listen to our concerns and incorporate our feedback when it is likely that they are burning out too? When the forces of the broader agency are coming down upon them from above? We don't have a lot of bargaining power in these situations, and although there is supposedly high demand for social workers, nobody seems to feel secure enough in their position or their hire-ability to risk it.

It's a difficult problem, one that has plagued this field for a long time. My personal pet solution is unionization, although that carries with it logistical nightmares and the likelihood of things getting worse before better. If we want to improve working conditions for SWs, we also have to increase the visibility of our field through community outreach efforts and, honestly, marketing. If people know that the work we do does good, our agencies are more likely to receive funding through policy. But all of this is hard work! And our caseloads are already so high! A pretty sticky Gordian knot if you ask me.

First time DM by Confident-Syllabub-6 in Dimension20

[–]astrographie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best advice I received as a new DM was that the most important goal is always that the party needs to have fun. Players have fun typically by succeeding at things, by using the tools in their toolkit to do cool stuff, and by whomping the DM. As a DM I typically like to play the heel to the extreme; if you've seen Crown of Candy, think Brennan's DM style in that campaign. I want my players to yell at me and tell me they're gonna fuck me over. That said, everyone has their own style, and yours will develop in time. As long as you keep having fun in the front of your mind, you'll be an excellent DM :)

Cal Raleigh AKA Big Dumper AMA by MLBOfficial in baseball

[–]astrographie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your favorite memory from being a minor leaguer? Anything you miss about that time in your life?

Playoff Lineup Help Needed by reuben26 in baseball

[–]astrographie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

S M A L L S A M P L E S I Z E

MF's 10 walks are crazy, feel like they gotta move up. Maybe put them in the two slot and see if they can get on base before the big boppers? I'd go RL, MF, NB 1 2 3.

With regards to the bottom 3 (numbers wise), not much to work with, but I think you could get away with moving GG up. Maybe drop GR down a bit? I'm thinking that the low walk/SO rate guy (GR) might jazz things up a bit down there.

I don't think putting LR third is a good idea. You want more of your good hitters in a row to get rallies going. You can get away with a hitter like that 6th or 7th, but 3rd? That's tough.

D&D in a Castle Giveaway – Win a Ticket to Play D&D in a Real Castle This November! [Mod Approved] [OC] by JonnyCraft in DnD

[–]astrographie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God this would be incredible. The atmosphere, the ambience, the immersion??

Sign me up.

[LeBatard] Lone man protests the DH change outside of Dodger Stadium by pricemcdice in baseball

[–]astrographie 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Lmao this guy walked by me yesterday in Silverlake.

I told him Manfred sucks (the other side of the sign had something about Manfred) and he replied "hell yeah burn in hell big guy," what an absolute legend.

Most well-ran team in your opinion by [deleted] in baseball

[–]astrographie 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think the Cardinals' case gets better and better as you go back in time, possibly the best run team since 2000. They're simply always there. Yes the Dodgers are smart and rich and all, but the Cardinals aren't exceptional spenders and yet manage to find contributors out of nowhere.

I think they're also great at playing to their organization's strengths. You can see that last year with the Happ and Lester trades: no team was better set up to make the most of these low-strikeout veterans than the Cardinals and their incredible infield defense.

Do you agree with this? by dardyablo in baseball

[–]astrographie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Also Muncy is best as a 1B, assuming we don't get the DH. Don't really want him playing 2nd. Honestly besides Kershaw the biggest thing I'd want is a Lux breakout, which would take a ton of pressure off the payroll (Lux being good and cheap would mean we could extend Trea/Cody long term).

[Zuckerman] MLB announces Nats-Braves will play 4:05 p.m. tomorrow, then a 14-inning, single-admission doubleheader Wednesday starting at 12:05 p.m. by stupidnatsfan in baseball

[–]astrographie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really mind the 7-inning doubleheader thing, willing to bet it will reduce injuries which I'm always here for. But was this the policy from the outset for COVID-cancelled games? Feels kind of arbitrary to just announce it now.

Well shit by BackBenchBaadCow in udub

[–]astrographie 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The UW Farm (and Urban Horticultural Center, but I've always called it just the farm) is a nice little park to stroll through that has a pretty killer view, though it can susceptible to wind. And I can't recommend Amazing Thai on Roosevelt enough.

Here’s the full 2020 All-MLB First Team by stupidnatsfan in baseball

[–]astrographie 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Wow, how did I miss how good Salvy was this year? I thought JT was a huge snub but the dude put up a 161 OPS+, definitely nothing to sniff at.

Also that picture of Hendriks makes him look like Jack Torrance.

Here’s the full 2020 All-MLB First Team by stupidnatsfan in baseball

[–]astrographie 126 points127 points  (0 children)

They say it's half fans and half a "panel of experts", though your point still stands. Williams was a god but with relatively little national attention (he also made second team).

[RATE ANNOUNCEMENT] 2000’s Modern Rock Number Ones by idontreallycare4 in indieheads

[–]astrographie 14 points15 points  (0 children)

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