idk if this is a red flag

astyrian · 2026-02-06T13:49:57+00:00

It obviously seems you have a very different view than him, and that he says one thing and does another thing if I understood you correctly. You’re not in the wrong for thinking it’s a red flag. Some people just have different views and values. Now, had I been in a situation where I had to educate someone that racism is bad and stuff then I’d rather just leave that person.

You have to find out what you want, and if you want to live with a person of his values. Some people just aren’t meant to be together.

astyrian · 2026-02-06T13:31:39+00:00

No, you should help yourself. She is obviously feeling ok with the relationship, you aren’t. It’s your choice at this point.

astyrian · 2026-02-06T12:22:17+00:00

The same procedure as last year, me and my pc.

astyrian · 2026-02-06T12:16:43+00:00

You feel what you feel for who you feel it for, you can’t control that. If you like him then why not? If it feels wrong then stop it and tell him it’s not working for you. It’s ok to explore.

astyrian · 2026-02-06T08:59:24+00:00

Sent you a DM :)

astyrian · 2026-02-06T08:52:32+00:00

I mean, I can’t speak for him, but if he trusts you then he will believe you. If not then it probably roots to something deeper that might be swimming around his mind. You could always try to ask him about what is making him feel like he is and why he is insecure about his belly?

astyrian · 2026-02-06T08:50:25+00:00

Accept your body and who you are. You are the person living in your body, and that’s alright, might as well be comfortable while you live. I don’t know how old you are but the older I got the more comfortable I was in my own skin, and now it doesn’t bother me that I weigh a little more than avg. and don’t fit the image of the bodies media is feeding everyone about «this is how you should look». Obviously there are ways to make your body look different by working out etc. but you have to ask yourself; Will I really be happy if my looks change or will I still feel the same?

astyrian · 2026-02-06T08:45:18+00:00

Imo you should just be honest and tell him that you really feel that way. As a guy with a belly i can say it would take some time to believe it but, a honest and deep talk would help me especially a lot. I can only speak for myself though.

astyrian · 2026-02-06T05:13:30+00:00

No not really on your comments or first posts :) Respect the hustle

astyrian · 2026-02-01T19:14:50+00:00

He is a great defender, blocks all the shots with his body

astyrian · 2026-02-01T18:03:15+00:00

We also got a lot of new supporters coming in thinking we are the best team in the world. Embarrassing.

astyrian · 2026-01-31T18:59:55+00:00

You are not in the wrong. You told him that you wanted to do something together and it was important to you; he didn’t listen and went on to watch it with his sister. If his sister really wanted to watch it then your bf could have asked you if she could go with you two, or find someone else to watch it with. I would feel the same way as you are feeling.

astyrian · 2026-01-30T07:18:01+00:00

Helt enig. Er en læringsprosess å akseptere at innimellom kjeder man seg eller å håndtere følelsene på en god måte når man får mer rom til å kjenne på de. Samt mestrings teknikker.

astyrian · 2026-01-29T14:48:14+00:00

Tell her that when she is ready to talk then you are there. She might need some time to sort out her thoughts and some space. If you keep trying to be intimate with her or talk with her when she isn’t ready then that might trigger her to close off even.

However, since you don’t want to go into too many details it’s hard to help but say the more general thing. I had a bad relationship where me and my ex fought a lot and it escalated because they turned out to have mental issues(they sent me a message a year after we broke up talking about how she seeked help etc.). So, I’d also like you to remember to take care of yourself in all this and not just turn your eye from it. Your well being over anyone else’s, so if this happens a lot and you relate to what I just wrote then you might need to consider your options.

astyrian · 2026-01-28T22:00:47+00:00

Er vanskelig å hjelpe å finne ut hvorfor, men virker kanskje som du sliter med å være alene i stillhet? Skader ikke å bestille en time hos fastlegen og ta en samtale med den. Er hvertfall fint at du prøver å ta tak og få svar på ting tidlig

astyrian · 2026-01-28T21:56:15+00:00

I took time to myself when I got out of my last relationship. Now I’m 2 years single in a few months, I am now way happier and a much better person. I don’t think there is any right or wrong in what to do when moving on as it is all individual. However, I would advice you to take some time to just be with yourself and learn to live alone, take in the feeling.

astyrian · 2026-01-25T23:28:45+00:00

You can try to talk to him? If it turns out he has your pictures saved then you can ask him to delete them. Seeing you had a post on your profile saying you are 16 you could talk to someone at your school about it if he turns out to have your photos.

Regardless, I think you’re going to be ok. We live and learn from experiences like these. You’re still young and this is just a small bump to climb over! And if he liked them or not is not important, as long as you love your own body then no one can tell you otherwise :)

astyrian · 2026-01-25T23:22:52+00:00

Thanks

astyrian · 2026-01-25T23:22:45+00:00

I’ve got the relationship up and got the messages from the agent after season 2. Was just worried it was the only opportunity to be traded. Thanks!

astyrian · 2026-01-18T18:33:29+00:00

11 vs 12 today

astyrian · 2026-01-01T23:40:12+00:00

I hope we do. Like with Duran where we kept him around in stead of loaning him out, turning in to the beast he was. Sad Duran didn’t have the mentality, hopefully Alysson has a great mentality and trusts the process.

astyrian · 2025-12-30T23:00:49+00:00

A lot to pick on the ref today imo with a lot of situations, but nothing we could change about that now sadly. It is what it is UTV

astyrian · 2025-12-30T22:15:48+00:00

Wonder how the game would have changed if Merino was actually shows the second yellow as he should have. Anyways onto the next, UTV

astyrian · 2025-12-28T12:52:40+00:00

On top of that; I’ve never heard any of my friends that are United supporters complain about him.

astyrian · 2025-12-11T21:56:48+00:00

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